[心情] 拒絕男友
上個月跟男友出去外國旅行了幾天,
因去不同地方,前兩間飯店我們都是睡兩張單人床,
最後那幾天因飯店沒有多餘的房間了,
所以我跟男友只能同睡在一張雙人床上。
在旅行的第二天,我們跟當地的友人去夜店,
後來玩的太夜,他們站著聊天,
我很捆了然後就跟男友說我要抱抱休息,
然後我就在大庭廣眾之下雙手張開整個人黏在他身上抱住他,
反正想說那些外國人都不認識我,而且我的臉躲在男友的胸口,
沒人看見我的長相,所以就舒服的靠著他,
但是抱著不久後男友的下半身忽然移位頂住我,
好像是他有反應,然後感覺他下半身熱熱的,
我就移開了下半身,再繼續抱住他想睡覺,
然後他不敢再移動,就跟友人說女友想睡覺了,
然後我們就告辭了。
回到飯店後我們分別各自洗澡,
他洗好後只穿內褲趟在床上(旅行那幾天他都穿著內褲在房裡走來走去),
他突然開口問我能不能給他看胸部,
我一開始沒聽清楚,然後我停下梳頭髮的動作問他剛才說什麼,
他又重複了一次說要看我的胸部,
我沒回答他就嚇得跑去浴室假裝在刷牙,
後來磨了很久不得不出來,我又覺得裝死好像不大好,
所以我決定跟他好好談談,
然後我走到他的床邊,
他整個人用被蓋住頭,我就拉開他的被跟他談,
我問他他剛跟我講什麼,
他就說我已經覺得很丟臉了,叫我去睡覺!
然後跟他拉鋸了很久他才拉下被跟我談,
我說其實我還沒準備好,沒有經驗會怕,
而且我覺得他還沒有及格,要他多努力,
他也答應等我先準備好再說。
然後我就突然給他一個吻,
他說我突然吻他,讓他嚇到了一下,應為他還沒準備好,
他就叫我再吻他一下,
然後他的舌頭就伸到嘴唇外等著我吻他,
所以我不得不張開我的嘴巴跟他接吻,
然後就好像大家說的“舌吻”,
吻了一下下,我覺得好陌生奇怪,然後就趕緊退開了。
男友也沒說什麼,就我靠在他胸口前聊了一會兒天,
然後他就趕我回我的床睡覺了。
在後來的幾天旅行中,雖然同睡一張床,他都很規矩,
但是他有暗示說他都睡不好,
但是我不敢問他為何會睡不好。
有時我會突然間偷親他嘴角,
或給他一個晚安的親吻,
應為後來我發現我好喜歡吻他哦!
但他重來就沒再親過我了。
而且他很怕在大庭廣眾之下我親他,
可能是害羞吧!
男生會這樣嗎?
*我跟男友交往一年了
*我們是遠距,一個月見一次那種
*兩個都是彼此的初戀
我想問啊!
1.我這種拒絕和處理方式合適嗎?會傷了男友的男性自尊嗎?
2.我其實很想知道,男人所謂的看胸部,真的只是看胸部呢?
還是會繼續下去做完全套?
3.我跟我男友這樣的相處方式會很奇怪嗎?
朋友都不相信一對情侶出外旅行了那麼多天,什麼都沒發生,
說除非是我男友有問題或不是男人才會那樣守規矩。
4.正常男人會忍多久不碰女友?
謝謝各位的解答!
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