[問題] 如何說服男友灌水測保險套?
先說明一下背景:男友大我兩歲,性經驗比我豐富,
我第一次是跟我男友,兩個人目前做過4,5次。
昨天做完以後,我說要把套套拿去裝水,看看有沒有破掉,
男友雖然十分不情願但還是照做了, 一邊裝一邊murmur「真的很破壞氣氛欸」
我則是十分緊張一直盯著套套看還想要裝更多水......
然後聽到他murmur我就有點不爽,覺得就算氣氛被破壞,
我也不想要壓抑自己害怕的心情而不去裝水,之後又擔心害怕一個月啊!
試著跟他說明這點,我說「女生當然會害怕啊!這會影響一輩子的事耶」
然後他也不爽了,說還在那邊分你我,這是兩個人的事啊。後來氣氛就有點僵。
我的問題是,請問有沒有什麼表達的方式,能夠比較直接但溫柔地讓對方知道,
裝水這件事對我來說真的很重要,是求一個心安(哎我看板上很多男生比女生還要緊張!)
(請不要跟我說如果他愛妳就會去裝了之類的話,我知道他其實也在意這件事,
但是他真的很討厭裝水破壞氣氛=_= )
(順便問一下,男生是不是都會討厭自己的精液啊?男友每次做完射了之後或我幫他
打出來之後,都超嫌惡的樣子,覺得很髒~"~)
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