[問題] 你們會跟男朋友說以前的事情嗎
我知道類似的標題出現很多次^^"
不過這次要問的不是性經驗而是人工流產.
六年前和當時的男友發生關係, 有按照正常程序戴保險套,
(勃起時戴上, 沒戴上之前沒摩擦,也沒有搭配油性潤滑劑,射完就拔出來)
結果保險套竟然破了! 可能不幸買到瑕疵品吧...
發現後兩小時內就去藥局買了事後藥補救,
按照指示服用, 但結果還是懷孕...不知道這要算幾萬分之一的機率,唉.
當時還是大學生, 不可能生下來, 只能選擇人工流產.
回想當時, 我不覺得自己是無知、草率隨便的年輕人,
安全性行為該做的措施都做了, 還是懷孕, 只能說這運氣真的很背.
人工流產的經驗對我來說也很重要,
從無助、罪惡感, 到能堅強面對, 學會對自己好一點, 是很寶貴的成長經驗。
問題來了:
和現在的男朋友交往一個月, 他對我很好,感覺很認真也很誠懇(目前看來啦)
曾經人工流產過的事, 雖然不會主動告訴他
但如果未來哪一天談起人工流產的時候, 該不該坦白告訴他呢
我想讓他瞭解,我為了克服那段創傷經驗付出的努力和改變,
但不能確定他知道後是否會有一個大~~疙瘩在心上...
有沒有人有過或聽過類似的經驗願意分享呢?
謝謝
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