[討論] 男友一直想要婚前性行為
與男友交往已經四年多.....
我一直堅持不能發生婚前性行為...並不是因為宗教信仰
只是我父母從小就教導我 並灌輸我婚後才能與男人發生關係
所以我很堅持
但男友一直很不能諒解 而且經常拿不能上床這件事情來"嘲諷"我
不然就是說他自己很可憐 都已經二十幾歲了
明明就有女朋友卻還是處男 他都被同學笑等等.......
之前常常因為這樣的事情發生爭吵 好幾次我都想
那乾脆結婚算了......結了婚...就可以發生關係
發生了關係之後 他就不會一直這麼囉唆
可是我的朋友都罵我 說我男友根本就是精蟲衝腦
我男友常常禁止我與朋友聚餐 更不准我去"有男生的聚會"
有一次我去開會 一位我意料外的男同學也有去
但原本我以為只有女生 所以我跟男友報備時 是說明只有女生的
但他後來知道有男生也去 他竟然侵入我的信箱,發信給我所有的朋友說
我是個蕩婦....
我的朋友知道這件事情之後,都很生氣
一方面覺得為什麼我男友要這樣神經病
另一方面更氣為何我男友可以私自進入我的信箱
因為朋友們覺得這樣她們寫的信
都會被我男友給看過 這樣很沒有隱私感
可是去除掉他一直想要跟我發生關係這點之外
他對我都很好.....
只是任何事情 他都會有意無意的說我虐待他 都不給他我的第一次
我到底該怎麼辦呢.....
每次我想要參加聚會 想要去參加別的課程
他都會說在我跟他發生關係前 他都不能相信我是真的愛他
所以不准我去
而我也會因為自己這個堅持 而對他有愧疚感
難道...堅持不婚前性行為 是罪惡嗎????????
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