[問題] 大家怎麼面對整型後的眼光?
先前做了隆鼻後,本來一直幫自己心理建設,追求美麗沒什麼不對,不需要害怕他人的眼光(因為我覺得要不被看出來應該不太可能…)
然後也打算好,如果有人直接來問我,就承認,但如果沒主動來問我,那我就不會主動提及(畢竟我心理還沒健康到可以直接暢談自己整形嗚嗚)
但整完到現在,總會接二連三的發生超出我預期的情況,比方說朋友直接在一堆人(其中包含我不熟的)面前直接說你是不是整了,並且還去告訴他的其他朋友(也不是我熟的)
另外也有朋友會在不知情的朋友面前,直接聊我的鼻子,
有次有不熟的人私底下討論我的鼻子,朋友剛好在場,就跟他們解釋我有整……
(以上皆為不同朋友)
雖然很盡力做過心理建設,但不知為何還是會感到很腦爆,會有種覺得這是我的隱私,我有權決定誰能知道吧的感覺,每次都這麼突如其來直接被爆料的感覺讓我很不舒服QQ 甚至裡面可能還有我不想讓他知道的人。
有跟朋友溝通過,但朋友就會說你不是也打算不要刻意隱瞞嗎?況且這麼明顯誰看不出來?
嗚嗚嗚這麼說也沒錯,而且以上那些情況料都被爆了,好像再氣也挽回不了,但還是感覺好不愉快啊~
請問版上的大家在整完後都是怎麼調適心態的呢?會把他當秘密嗎?
如何去面對他人的眼光跟評論呢?如果被別人(包含熟跟不熟的)知道,又會怎麼面對?
因為今天才剛又發生一次爆料,讓我心情有點難過,想聽聽大家都是怎麼樣面對的,謝謝~
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