[問題] 不知道該怎麼拒絕,怎麼辦?消失
目前人在馬尼拉工作
之前在台灣參加進修課程時遇到一個男生
課程結束後,男生明示加暗示對自己有好感
但我全心在工作上又常在國外,沒打算有對象
有時候他的一些行為讓我不太舒服
例如把手搭我肩膀或是碰我頭髮
我都會直接明確拒絕說「不准碰我!」
或是「離我一公尺!」
只要我感受到任何一點曖昧就會劃清界線
後來我到馬尼拉工作,有天他說要來找我玩
我說
「每個人都說要來找我玩,都嘛在毫洨我。機票訂了再說。」
結果他真的訂機票了QQ
於是我現在很苦惱該怎麼辦
這樣變成我有義務要陪他去玩
以朋友身分出去玩不是不好
只是我也知道一個男生花了機票住宿錢
他一定是對旅程期待有收穫的
我不可能笨到不知道他想要什麼
可是拒絕的話一定會讓他非常不爽
因為機票住宿都訂了
現在我很兩難不知道該怎麼辦
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