認識20幾年的朋友,因為我太依賴他了,我一直認定他是我最好的朋友,所以放假時就想
找他玩,久了,也許是他也煩了吧,常常約好了,卻臨時發簡訊說他有事不能去了,漸漸
的我很怕接到他的簡訊,很害怕看到他又要爽約了
有一天討論一個問題:如果有一天我很生氣的對他說,以後不理你了,他會怎樣?他說那
就算了
瞬間我的心真的好痛好痛(因為換是我,我絕對會想辦法挽救),這也是埋下冷戰的前因
後來第一次一起去日本自助玩,果然就如同網友說的,回來就絕交了,因為三人同行,我
彷彿第三者,很多餘,很孤單,只記得一回家,立刻爆哭
他也感覺到日本行之後,整個感覺都變了,所以我們就開始變成陌生人!偶爾因共同朋友
有約,仍會見面,但場面極冷
1. 我傳過簡訊溝通,沒交集
2. 我找理由打過電話,問要不要幫他搶特賣,雖有請我搶,但之後情況還是沒變
三年多了,我再度鼓起勇氣找藉口傳line跟他聯絡,請他幫個很簡單很簡單的舉手之勞,
想藉此有個話題,他說我可以去其他朋友,他們會很熱意幫我的(等於是拒絕了)
看到他的回覆,我覺得我該醒了,這段友情只有我在乎,我不該一直黏著他,他可能覺得
我怎麼會趕不走吧
無人可說,只好在此發洩一下
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