今年28歲,有交往多年的男朋友,雖然雙方都有結婚的意願,但工作跟經濟方面覺得彼此都不夠穩定,老實說,很像是有這個承諾,但還看不到終點。
本身是個異性絕緣體,幾乎沒有異性朋友,有沒有男朋友都如此。
想問問版上的女生們,其實不是想分手,也不是不喜歡對方,而是如果是妳,妳覺得持續有異性交友圈比較好嗎?
但我總覺得這樣很像帶有目的性的交友很奇怪。
比如這樣的情況,就賭下去看跟男朋友能不能走到終點的人多嗎?
希望可以和版上的女生們交流一下想法,謝謝~
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這是一個開放性的問題,所以有另一半的人都應該沒有異性朋友嗎?
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就比如說,有朋友的朋友想認識妳,妳會因爲有男友就拒絕認識,還是加個line,聊個天無傷大雅?
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※ 編輯: yerichar (203.163.208.151), 06/18/2018 22:10:25
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真的,其實我也無法抱著這樣的心態交友,但心中不免有這種煩惱,也許遲遲等不到所謂男生認定可以結婚的時候,其實也只是想知道,這些年紀的女生有沒有煩惱這個。
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要講直白點是想討論女生有沒有備用魚缸,最後變成原po就是想找魚缸,結案。
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我打這篇文章,不是想鼓吹應該怎麼樣,以前大學剛畢業,只想著兩個人開心就好,隨著時間在走,如果真的交往多年,就算覺得百分之八十會結婚難免會擔心百分之二十的意外。
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