[討論] 能有效建立恐怖情人資料庫嗎?消失
恐怖情人是多處埋下的地雷,
沒上過新聞的佔大多數,
還沒交往真的很難發現,
遇到會是一輩子的惡夢,
午夜夢迴都會被嚇醒,
我慶幸自己逃脫了,
還有機會過我美好的人生
但下個他的交往對象呢?
有這麼幸運嗎?
恐怖情人會累積歷任交往對象的離去,加諸情緒在現任,語言暴力、情緒勒索、肢體暴力到無法忍受的時候,提分手就是拿命賭的時候,自己或是家人可能會被恐怖情人傷害。
無論自己曾有沒有過錯,在恐怖情人眼裡都是先判定是個罪人,而且一定會犯錯,還沒犯錯只是還沒被抓包而已,永無止境的懷疑和威脅恐嚇。
不能有異性的朋友,不能和異性說話,不能慢回他的訊息,手機每次見面都要檢查,所有的一切都要在掌控之中,一旦稍微反抗,恐怖情人的理智就會斷線,不斷的恐嚇威脅到你害怕不再反抗為止。
恐怖情人沒有意識到自己的行為多麼可怕,認為千錯萬錯都是別人的錯,自己是受害者,認為自己是真心愛著對方,才會這樣要求。
很多專家提出的恐怖情人特點,都是要交往後才能發現,只能在碰到以後才能辨識自己的對象是不是恐怖情人?
就算報警,應該也只能提出保護令之類的東西,但老實說這種東西根本沒用,警方總覺得,真的被打了、被砍了,先去驗傷再來報案,還沒的話都先不處理,有事再來,只能一直處在被動的劣勢。
我覺得兇宅網的想法很好,避免自己買到資訊不對等的房子,但人有個資法或者是被誣賴的問題,能怎麼樣設立類似的查詢系統,但不洩漏個資且具真實性的方式,能先查詢到自己準備交往的對象是不是恐怖情人。
預防是我認為比較好的方式,因為踩到地雷,不是每個人都可以全身而退,誰都不希望自己和身邊的人交往到恐怖情人。
除了靠法律微不足道的保護制裁力,還能有什麼方法防範自己或身邊的家人、朋友成為下一個命案受害者?
這個想法存在我心裡很久,但想不到好的方法去建立,單純希望大家都能擁有安全的人生,不要有這樣悲慘的遭遇,所以提出來討論,想詢問大家有沒有更好的見解。
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