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抱歉一開始舉的例子大家可能看不懂
所以原文刪掉重問
大概的問題是
大家會覺得哄另一半是自己的責任嗎?
不管今天是不是自己做錯事惹對方生氣
或他單純自己因為一些事情心情差
只要對方心情不好
就是應該為他的情緒負責嗎?
因為一直以來我都是
心情不好自己想辦法調適
做點別的事或什麼的
就算是別人做了什麼讓我發火
他道完歉我會需要一點時間消化我的情緒
此時此刻他不需要一直安慰我一直抱歉
讓我自己情緒過了就好
因此不是很理解什麼情況下會覺得自己的情緒對方應該負責?
還是其實我才是怪人?
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