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往年除夕跟大年初一都會回我爸那邊吃飯,
除了去年我們剛搬新家,
所以改為到我們家
不過那次經驗我覺得頗差的,
畢竟一次擠了快20人,
除了很擠之外
而且還有20人份的杯盤以及數不盡的廚餘跟垃圾
如果是在我爸那邊,
大家還會自己收自己的,
到了我們家就全部擺在那邊裝死
去年我跟我媽收到快抓狂,
我爸都在一旁做自己的事,
就不計較了
到了幾個月前,
我媽就有跟我爸說今年改回我爸那邊,
也就是往常那樣,
我爸也都說好
結果前幾天他突然說他已經自己跟大家講好了,今年還是來我家
我媽就很生氣,
收拾整理都沒出一分的力就算了,
重點是還出爾反爾、不跟大家討論就擅自決定
我媽就跟他吵,認為我爸不尊重人,
誰知道跟他一說,
他就瘋狂跳針轉移話題,
說幫忙大家又不會怎樣、不願意幫忙很自私、人也是要付出的之類的
面對我媽說的從不正面回應,
偏偏他口才比較好,
常常導致吵了半天已經偏離主題
請問大家我該怎麼做?
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他們頂多把碗筷拿到水槽,剩下收拾還是我們來
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所以很擠
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對,我根本不敢跟他說,不然只會有類似的下場
※ 編輯: ya870323 (1.164.254.18), 02/01/2018 08:27:10
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