[心情] 意識到跟朋友的交情沒有自以為的好消失
不知道大家有沒有這種經驗?
你以為你們是好朋友,結果發現這段關係是自己主動居多,對方不太主動,且也沒有像你
一樣掏心掏肺的,如果你不主動聯絡了對方也不會找你(但是一起出去時都很開心)...
經
過一段時間後終於意識到了,原來你真心交朋友對方也沒必要真心對你。
會突然有感而發是因為我以為的好朋友,最近交男朋友了也沒跟我說。
明年她要去歐洲玩又問我要不要一起去,
雖然我有時間也有錢可以去,但是猶豫了。回想與她的關係似乎不是我期望的那種「無話
不談」的好朋友,她總是有所保留,也不曾主動關心我的近況。
不知道是不是原生家庭的影響,
我覺得交到無話不談的知心好友好難
有也是階段性的,等到共同點消失就會慢慢漸行漸遠 (例如同學 或是剛好都失戀之類的
)
是女生的友情都是這樣嗎?
還是我太玻璃心?
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