[閒聊] 家人很愛管東管西要怎麼辦?
小弟我是大一新生
以為上大學會很自由,但還沒開學就遇到一些麻煩事情,就是家裡限制一堆東西
舉最近的例子好了
我暑假有打工,打工的錢一半給他們,剩下都存起來不亂花
上個月我跟家人討論想買台機車當代步工具,他們說大一不行因為路段太複雜.....
如果是通勤的話要一小時又十五分鐘,都用站的還要跟別人擠在一起,想到就怕.....
後來過了幾天之後,我跟他們講說等到我大二不知道能不能在外面跟別人合租個房,我當
下保持著討論的心態跟他們說說我的想法,一講完他們就臭臉然後爆氣開罵,還說我這樣
很不肖,家裡都沒給你溫暖是不是= =......
後來我就不想再跟他們討論大學生活相關的事情了!
但是今天,他們把我叫到房間,我以為是有重要的事情,結果不是....
他們嚴肅的對我說:
你之後要選社團是吧?記得要把你要參加的跟我們講,到時候再幫你篩選,
還有,別給我參加什麼XX社(講滿多的,都是以靜態活動為主的社團)之類的社團啊!
我當下聽到都不想回話了= =
不知道該如何是好,連個選擇社團的自由也要管理.....
總之最近有點小煩惱,希望在這邊能抒發一下自己的煩惱~
不知道有沒有跟我有類似狀況的人,要怎麼跟家人溝通呀?
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