[問題] 女朋友應該做家事嗎?
我和男友交往兩年多
每個週末都會去他家住(因為遠距離)
基本上都是我過去他那裡,不論風吹雨打(跟神經病一樣)
我去他家是吃飯什麼的都會幫忙收和洗
垃圾偶爾也會幫忙收和倒
如果他媽媽煮飯我會過去問有沒有要幫忙或者端菜出去
但大部分他媽媽都會指定他們兄弟的其中一個去做某件家事
當下我也不會過去說要幫忙
他就覺得我不夠自動幫忙做家事
總是挑剔我都不做事很懶
多半吵架的內容都是我不夠自動
他認為結婚前妳都不會做了 以後有可能會做嗎
很多人也說只是女朋友而已又不是老婆幹嘛做
甚至是客人的身分才對
其實我真的不知道這樣到底要怎麼去定義
這次吵架因為他媽媽叫他去曬衣服
我拉他去他不去 後來我就自己跑去曬衣服
但因為我覺得他這樣躺在那邊不動把我當作理所當然很不爽 所以我就臭著臉邊曬 後來他
才上來幫忙
然後事後他就不爽我臭臉
又說為什麼一定要兩個人去曬?
接著他就說我們觀念不同...
不管分不分手的問題
我真的很想知道
做到什麼程度才是對的?
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