[心情] 跟弟弟翻臉怎麼辦?
如題
這陣子難得回家,結果因為一些生活小事跟弟弟鬧翻了
反正就是姐姐對弟弟的生活習慣有意見的那種小事
我承認我口氣不好,之後有跟他道歉,試圖想跟他溝通
但他完全不領情,一直用吵架的語氣,然後我也又被激起來 又開始吵……
結果就是他完全不跟我講話
有預感大概至少半年他都不會跟我講話,因為他也一年多沒跟我媽講話了……
剛剛我放下自尊心跟他說話,說明天可以在他上班前幫他買早餐,當作今天的賠罪
結果他完全不理我
我後來越想越氣,也決定他如果真的這樣都不跟我講話,我也無所謂了
但心情還是很悶,有沒有什麼好一點的溝通方式可以稍微改善呢……
(我雖然覺得一輩子都不和好也沒關係,但內心還是過不去……)
我盡力不要再爆走了,麻煩版友們可不可以提供什麼好方法和好呢……?
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嗯QQ 我現在心情一直因為這件事很悶…
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可是不確定他喜不喜歡雷姆欸…
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他其實平常也不太會回我line…
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他現在大學生,其實沒住家裡,因為家裡一些事情就變成不跟我媽說話,但我也不知道到底為什麼可以一年多都不跟我媽講話……他也不說原因
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好像真的距離遠一些感情反而會更好
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我曾經試著好好跟他討論關於我媽的事情,但只要談到我媽他也完全不講話,真的無解…
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都20以上,我大他兩歲
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