[討論] 可以接受另一半和前任出去吃飯嗎?
我和前男友高二分手到現在已經快十年,
高中畢業後,我跟前男友還有另外一個女生偶爾會約出來吃飯,
基本上每年都會固定約吃飯敘舊,
其實我們早就已經把曾經交往過這件事拋腦後當作兒時記憶罷了
直到交了現在的男朋友,我男友會介意我的高中三人聚會,
雖然不是單獨,但還是會介意我和前男友去吃飯唱歌或是坐前男友的車
因為這件事情和男友吵過一次架後,我開始躲避三人聚會,
每次約吃飯出遊我都裝沒空,直到後來我才坦白說出我男友會介意,
結束了這段三人行的友誼,當然我和另一個女生還是會聯絡啦!!
事隔半年多,今天前男友又約了一次聚會,我的答案還是不參加,
前男友說這是他最後一次約,不會再打擾了,因為把我們當朋友才會找我們吃飯,
「快十年的友誼還要這樣」、「真正的朋友不是這樣子」、「你去追隨你的愛情吧」
其實換作是我,我也無法接受如果我男友跟前女友聯絡這件事,
比起這段十年的友誼,我更重視我男友的感受,
但今天被人慎重發言絕交了的我,內心還是有點過意不去,
想知道各位女孩們會怎麼處理這種事呢?
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