[閒聊] 慢熟的人會想改變自己嗎?
自認為是一個慢熟的人,應該也算是個邊緣人,
比如到了一個新環境,喜歡先觀察別人,不主動跟別人談話。
也可以說是長耳朵,不是刻意去聽,
但若在我旁邊講,就會留心別人對話內容,
去猜測誰是可以我有辦法相處的人。
另一方面來說,應該是很有戒心的,
常常覺得若跟某人太熟,也許哪天會被傷害。
多數時候是覺得這樣的個性沒什麼不好,
只要不有求於人,其實無欲則剛,一個人很自在,
但有時候也會覺得有點孤獨,
通常是發生在團體活動被忽略的時候。
另外很奇妙的是,我可以跟陌生人聊天,
比如計程車司機、店員、或路人,而且是很樂意的。
通常是在我好奇某件事情時,
我會主動去詢問,但是跟生活周遭的人卻不太願意,真的太奇怪了呀……。
想問問如果是跟我一樣的人,
覺得這種個性有什麼優點或缺點嗎?
會想改變這種個性嗎?
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