[討論] 該怎麼跟她溝通
我跟她共事快兩年了,感情算滿要好
每天中午會一起吃飯
公事私事都可以很放心的分享,也都會無條件幫忙彼此
在她還沒懷孕前假日也偶爾相約朋友們出去走走吃飯什麼的
只是近幾個月常覺得她講話越來越不尊重人...
不知道是因為她懷孕的緣故
還是單純覺得我們夠熟了所以說話越來越直接
例1
:啊!我又忘了帶我的湯匙來公司了
同事:那請問你有帶腦來嗎?
:......
例2
某次她想吃公司的水果餐,但團膳漏訂了她的
於是我打給她說這個狀況
同事:這樣也可以漏訂你真的很誇張欸(掛電話
但這不是我的問題啊怎麼能怪我?
被掛電話當下真的很生氣,覺得無故被罵
還好之後團膳不是漏訂只是放在別處
而她也順利吃到水果餐了
後來我想了好久決定跟她說我的感受
:你剛那樣讓我有點不爽
同事:因為我想吃水果餐
:但這不是我的問題
同事:你應該訂完再跟團膳確認啊
(但訂了就是訂了,提醒團膳記得訂餐是沒必要的)
此時我覺得她有點無理取鬧了,也就沒再說什麼
過幾十分鐘後她line我說「對不起啦」
也就沒事了
現在我們感情依然跟以前一樣
只是時不時還是會被她突如其來的言語刺傷...
記得有次聊天剛好聊到類似話題,我說
:欸你不要這麼愛罵人好不好
同事:我本來就很愛罵人啊
我很喜歡她這個人
但有時希望她能用更好的方式說話
卻不知道怎麼溝通
是我太玻璃心嗎QQ
還是孕婦情緒都很不穩我應該多體諒呢
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