[心情] 自以為的貼心讓室友有壓力(文長)
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我是社會新鮮人,在四月中旬北上工作,
室友是我高一最要好的同班同學,
她已經在北部工作一年了,
當初她一得知我要北上,
情義相挺的讓我暫住她租的小套房
(等她合約到期我們要一起租家庭式的)
我還滿愛乾淨的,東西也一定要整齊,
室友也喜歡乾乾淨淨但可以接受凌亂,
她的工作一整天下來是很勞累的,有時候也會影響到心理層面,就是一個壓力大的工作,
所以她下班會嚷著說如果進房看起來乾淨整齊心情也會變很好,
我總是比她早下班,
如果前一天有晾衣服就會幫她收並且摺好,
床上的被子或是椅子上散亂的衣物會幫她摺好放好,
洗衣籃的衣服滿出來就拿去洗也順便晾,
空瓶子垃圾也都會舉手之勞幫她清理掉,
洗廁所擦個地板這些我自己也都做得很開心;
因為想著她說過的話,而且她又讓我無條件借住,想讓她回來看到這些是感到舒服的。
我也會關心她工作還好嗎還是有沒有什麼不如意的事情,
她跟我說我做這些事情讓她感到很有壓力,
說我不用對她那麼好,
她會覺得愧對我;
也跟我說我問她還好嗎是在刺探她的內心深處
,她覺得我為什麼一直要刺探著她,
讓她更有壓力了。
我跟她說明我的的出發點只是想要關心她
希望她可以一吐為快,
她覺得我這樣說又讓她對我有愧對感,
她是什麼事情都會想很多的人
而我是個性相對直率,不太會去想那麼多
我沒有想到她會這樣子認為
我這幾天有反省了自己,
是不是跟其他朋友相處時,
自以為的貼心常讓人倍感壓力,
只是朋友們沒有跟我說而已。
這些事情也不會詢問朋友,
因為朋友一定會跟我說不會呀不要想太多,
所以才發文抒發一下自己的心情與想法,
希望各位鞭小力一點
謝謝你們看完這篇文
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