平常跟父母相處融洽,有的時候也很黏我媽
只是越長大越發現被父母限制是很讓我痛苦的一件事……
比如說光是環島這件事我就說服我媽很久,
但是她不准我去浮潛
又或者去平溪的時候她說不准冬天去,
這種限制我不能做什麼的事都會讓我跟她吵很久
今天我自己報名了一個海外志工的活動,(其實我心裡知道我媽不太可能同意
當然我媽一聽到就吼我再搞什麼?讀書不好好讀做什麼有的沒的
我回說難道我不能做些有意義的事嗎
讓我很難過的話是聽到我爸媽說 就叫妳大學乖乖讀四年,出去找工作後再說,不要做些有的沒的,
老實說我連想表達我自己想法的機會都沒有…
真的很難過……
我之前有po過一篇文是問大學生活該做什麼有意義的事,老實說我也摸索思考了一陣子我能做什麼,因為真的覺得生活過得很不充實很害怕,
我想找到想做的事,我想去闖闖看,但是只要爸媽不同意我連做的機會都沒有
真的是最近這陣子只要遇到他們不准我的事,我就會莫名的氣到哭……
也許有人會說哭什麼真的很幼稚,我也不知道,就是覺得自己被綁手綁腳,一方面是自己想去做的事,一方面又要被包裝的孝順給箝制
我很喜歡我的家人但是我真的不想被限制住,內心真的很掙扎
說真的很羨慕西方國家的家庭教育……
我的人生難道應該被父母給限制住嗎?
高中的時候我以為18歲就是大人了,現在發現我不是,因為我連我自己想做的事都無法去做,叫我等20歲?難道20歲後他們又真的會把我當成人看待嗎?又真的什麼事都不會干涉嗎?
聽爸爸媽媽的話乖乖的活了18年,老實說這18年我覺得是在浪費青春,國小國中高中整天要不就是去學校要不就是放學,你問我做過什麼事有什麼特殊經驗,我還要思考很久然後告訴你,不好意思除了讀書我不知道我以前做了什麼事……
叫我獨立自主卻又一再干涉我的生活,連找房子住宿也要找來帶他們來看,然後再唸我說什麼不能自己好好處理?(是他們要我找來給他們看過欸!
以為大學生活能過得多精彩呢,看來也只不過是不住家裡而已,還是一樣上學放學,
我為什麼要過這種生活……
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因為現在情緒很激動,我可能表達的不是很清楚也不知道大家能不能感受我想說的……
唉…
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