[心情] 室友與鄰居
---前情提要---
我跟室友跟隔壁鄰居(女)都是公司同事,室友跟鄰居關係十分曖昧,晚上鄰居三不五時
就來我們這吃晚餐
畢竟在同一張餐桌,聊天總是一起
女生在聊天時,總是期待室友的反應
我基於禮貌,中間不時會接話表示我也有在聽
這時妙了...女生會句點我
例如:
女「今天發生什麼事怎樣怎樣...(開心)」
我「真假?那他不就... 」、「超扯、也太白痴...」
女生要馬沈默,不然就「噢」、「就這樣」
有想過或許是我接的太突兀、沒梗
但室友接的更爛...「噢」「最好是」「呵呵」之類的,但女生依然可以笑的花枝亂顫
我當然知道女生是為了我室友而來,但好歹尊重一下我也在場吧= =
自討沒趣後只好窩到床上看書
(宿舍頗小10坪上下,床就在餐桌旁)
這時候女生又覺得說我不參與很掃興就會說那我要走了(個人感覺)
在公司大家關係也還尚可,但一週有三~五天會遇到這問題,沒有說到很困擾、但就感覺
問題
這種事情該怎麼處理好勒?
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當然是人帥真好,但我跟室友是一起開伙,難道我要端去廁所吃嗎囧
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我後來是一做自己的事,對方好像就覺得沒禮貌(?)就說那我要走了
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 15:33:20
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蠻有有道理的,我這幾天試試
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感謝點出盲點!一直覺得怪,原來是她能無視我、我卻不能無視她的原因XD
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 15:43:13
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因為工作的地方很偏避,下班基本上出不了門,她無聊就想來串串門子(?)室友有私下
說過享受曖昧的感覺
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也不必到注意我啦,但都一起吃飯聊天了,為何要讓氣氛這麼尷尬...只能說人帥真好、
人
醜說什麼都吵XD
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 16:25:33
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 16:29:22
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另類工具人
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室友頗悶騷
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我原本也這樣想,但我都做球了,還句點我...感覺像熱臉貼冷屁股
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只好別在熱臉了(?)
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 19:55:10
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我跟我室友處很好啊
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 20:43:48
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師爺,您在幫我翻譯嗎XD
※ 編輯: twalan1 (1.124.48.71), 03/29/2017 21:35:17
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