[新聞] 你的人生不是我要的! 棄百萬婚禮 華裔女毅然分手已回收
你的人生不是我要的! 棄百萬婚禮 華裔女毅然分手
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2017-03-16 13:17聯合新聞網 綜合報導
當我們發現枕邊人不適合自己,是否也有勇氣做出這個決定?澳洲一名24歲華裔女子與男友
感情長跑8年,婚前3個月深感雙方不適合,毅然取消婚禮,更打算在原訂婚禮場合舉辦慈善
舞會,鼓勵全世界女孩「感情不是妳的全部,勇敢做自己。」
《每日郵報》報導,雪梨24歲華裔女子安吉拉(Angela Tan)高中16歲結交大自己3歲、同
為亞裔的男友。隨著倆人完成學業、出社會工作,到步入禮堂階段,安吉拉突然怯步。她強
調當時還年輕,彼此沒有想太多就決定交往,訂婚同居後更瞭解雙方缺點,讓她對這段關係
感到不安。
順著人生劇本走,倆人已花費5.5萬澳幣(約新台幣130萬元)籌備婚禮,但安吉拉仍決定告
訴男友,她對這段感情有所猶豫。雙方溝通過後,她發現和男友對未來毫無共識,男友想要
孩子,婚後回到亞洲工作,「我不想要有孩子,更希望旅行,也不想回亞洲」,雙方決議取
消婚約。
安吉拉經男友同意,改舉辦慈善晚會,為當地機構募款,幫助第三世界國家婦女擺脫貧窮。
未來她仍希望走入婚姻,但人生3分之1皆和男友度過,現在只想享受單身,過自己所要的生
活,「最後我決定選擇我自己」。
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心得:
還年輕做自己是正確的選擇
應該多多鼓勵這種正面的心態
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