[難過]朋友要結婚了卻發現男友劈腿已回收
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是我老婆的好姊妹在今年8月份就要跟男朋友結婚了
但是在今天卻抓到男生偷吃 (之前有一次出軌經驗,但女方選擇原諒)
這次在抓到劈腿讓女生崩潰不想結婚了,但是朋友長輩幾乎都知道他們要結婚的消息
女生不想讓家人擔心,不想讓事情鬧大搞複雜,所以想找一個說詞說他們現在不結婚了
,所以請我幫忙,但我也想不出有甚麼說詞
所以來請教女孩版的各位,遇到這種情況你們會如何跟大家說要取消婚約
抱歉我補充一下
朋友沒有要繼續結婚了,就算朋友心軟要結婚我也會罵醒她
只是朋友怕跟父母說了男生劈腿這件事,會讓爸媽難過傷心
所以才想要想另外的說詞說不結婚了
3/11 更新
很抱歉這麼晚才來跟鄉民報告進度
我有把大家的建議給我老婆看,由我老婆去跟那位朋友說了
她也有接納大家的意見,但因為還是怕媽媽年紀大了
加上當初她跟男朋友一開始不是很被看好
所以怕說了媽媽打擊會很大,所以會先透過跟自己哥哥講
然後再商討如何跟媽媽坦承
只是目前男生那邊又有另外的動作,讓女方有點動搖
那是前面我沒有提到如何抓到偷吃的經過,如果女方同意
我在PO上來
謝謝廣大鄉民的幫忙
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我也是這樣跟朋友說,一定要先跟父母那邊講
但朋友的個性只是不想太操煩父母,覺得把男生劈腿的事說了
整個事情會鬧很大,所以才想找個不那麼嚴重的理由說不結婚了
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沒有要給男方做面子,朋友不想男生傷害他這件事讓父母擔心難過
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