[心情] 哭了好久(文長)已回收
最近和男友論及婚嫁
我們已經在開始看房子
但男友一直沒表態想要住哪裡
男友是單親家庭
母親因為只有一個兒子所以希望和她住
但據我所知她母親有憂鬱症
男友是個孝順的人
會擔心到她母親我可以諒解
可是要我和一個憂鬱症的人長期相處真的不堪其擾
我自己母親也是有輕微憂鬱症
從小被各種打虐精神攻擊
我就決定嫁出去絕對要脫離母親
但男友一直勸我說對那些病患要有包容心
我平常要工作到7.8點還要被精神攻擊真的會受不了
我自己工作的錢買衣服媽媽也要念
我買給她衣服也要念
我煮給他吃也要說燒焦
買給她吃也要說太油
記得小時候有時候她情緒不穩會抓我
常常抓的一條一條的
男友安慰我說小時候過去就不要計較養育之恩
因為他整個背上全部都是疤痕
我很難過大哭
為什麼長大還要被他們綁住
我看了很多女版友也建議放生
讓自己好過一點 不要再被精神折磨
畢竟自己生出來要負責 她們這樣對小孩是不對的
但男友還是半堅持希望和他母親住
好不容易要脫離了 卻又要回到以前輪迴
請問女孩都怎麼勸男友不要和父母住?
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