[討論] 如何拒絕朋友借住的要求已回收
我自己租在台北市區
有雙人床,坪數算大的套房(8坪多
這位朋友有親戚住在淡水那邊
幾乎每個月都會北上一次
跟她交情算中上吧
平常不會特別聯絡
但她北上會約出來打屁聊天喝酒吃飯這樣
曾經我到她住的縣市玩,她也有當地陪並住她家一晚
之前讓她借住了兩三次
有次讓我感覺很差是因為隔天我需要早起也有告知她
那天回到我家時間蠻晚了
我洗好澡要她也趕快弄弄我想睡了
但我在床上滑手機滑了一小時她還是開著電視東摸西摸
我催了好幾次她才趕快用好
之後她北上問能不能借住我都不太願意
一方面也是我其實是個很看重私人領域的人
一方面也是我其實是個很看重私人領域的人
加上作息不固定 也不喜歡人家吵
我覺得已經拒絕蠻多次了
之前都用男友要住我家打發她
但她每次來還是會問我Orz
或是一起夜唱之類的
結束後她也會想一起回我家因為她親戚家很遠
我都蠻為難的 又不想顯得自己很小氣(雖然借住方面的確不大方啦...
想問大家有沒有比較好的處理方法呢?
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哈哈哈我都沒注意到,改一下好了
有時候是本來要一起夜唱或去夜店,結束已經沒捷運的活動,她就會表現出如果妳家無法借住我就不要去的意思
※ 編輯: lestatdrain (112.104.105.169), 09/17/2016 01:11:47
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她也認識我男友,知道他做什麼的所以行不通
※ 編輯: lestatdrain (112.104.105.169), 09/17/2016 01:13:38
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※ 編輯: lestatdrain (112.104.105.169), 09/17/2016 01:16:59
※ 編輯: lestatdrain (112.104.105.169), 09/17/2016 01:16:59
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有時是一群人一起出去 但其他人都是住家裡不方便帶朋友回家,這時候壓力就會在我身上,好像我不借住她就沒辦法參與
※ 編輯: lestatdrain (112.104.105.169), 09/17/2016 01:23:10
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