[閒聊] 爸媽管很少的小孩已回收
常常看到女生抱怨爸媽管很嚴甚至嚴重到控制狂地步的家庭,
大家都覺得很痛苦可怕,想快點經濟獨立逃離父母,
有感而發想來分享一下另一種家庭長大的小孩,
我的家庭算是蠻民主的的家庭,
從小到大在人生中很多決定,
例如要讀高中還是五專、升大學時要讀哪間大學哪個科系、
要住家裡還是外宿、學生時期交往的對象、長大後擇偶的對象,
甚至連小時候要不要去安親班,要不要學某個才藝,要不要去考前衝刺班XD
小時候超任性的全部都去一兩次後就拒絕不去......
如果我做的決定父母不喜歡會碎碎念一下但不會強迫,
常常大部分都讓我自己決定,但是!自己的決定自己負責不得後悔!!!
所以雖然相形之下,這樣家庭教育的小孩感覺很自由,
可是你的人生做的任何決定,如果有任何失誤或者挫折也都要自己吞下,
怨不得任何人,因為都是你自己的決定阿!!!
這種感覺其實長大後覺得有點孤獨(好難形容)
大概是你如果出了紕漏父母也不太會幫忙你收拾或當你的後盾的感覺,
因為都是你自己要承擔的。
又最近跟老朋友聚餐,
某個朋友一直狂抱怨都是他的父母幫他設定的擇偶條件太高,
要求對象要在同一縣市、家裡有房有車blah blah
讀書時期又規定不能交男友等等,才讓他一路單身到現在,
才會一直被追問怎麼沒對象怎麼還沒嫁等等。
但是我就在心裡默默的想,
我跟我弟一直以來交往的對象,從來沒被特別反對過,
學生時期也沒被禁止不准交男女朋友,
結果我們兩個一把年紀了到現在還不是單身QQ
真的是要連一個抱怨的說法都沒有啊ORZ
有人的家庭也是這樣的嗎XDD
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謝謝提醒難怪我打字時覺得哪裡怪怪的!
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