[討論] 情侶一方出社會一方學生 如何維持感情已回收
自己跟男友目前就是處於這種情況
所以想上來跟版友討教一下
或是看有沒有版友也能分享一下心路歷程XD
自己出社會一年了
男友今年要碩畢 還要當兵
但自己發現這一年間兩人常大吵
而且價值觀跟想法上出現了很大的落差...
雖然有討論要解決但還是會變成大吵結束
最近已呈現白熱化將近分手的情況Q_Q
在一起4年以上了 也都很愛對方
但真的就是一直無頭緒的吵快崩潰了
男友說目前對感情的看法是注重現在
因為他未來要當兵工作等等變數很多
不想要隨便給承諾
雖然能體諒但還是覺得好糾結啊啊啊...
以前覺得的小事現在容忍度都很低(彼此都是)
隨便的事情都可以吵起來
自已也很困擾到底怎麼了Q_Q
能排除彼此綠綠的的因素
難道等到下次價值觀跟想法上的契合點
真的要等到他出社會了嗎...?
再請版友們提供些建議 謝謝!!!
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