[問題] 出國玩前發生的爭執已回收
朋友在出國前發生了一些爭執
以下用A、B敘述
前情提要
A、B是認識十年的朋友
B在7/21要去日本住男友家,約一個月
中間A會來跟B會合一起出去玩,約七天
A會跟著住在B的男友家
B在8/11-8/16跟男友出去玩一週但他沒跟A講
A一開始要訂7/25但沒訂到
(有跟B說7/25沒訂到可能會改別天但尚未確定哪天)
隔天A就訂了8/11-8/16
結果B跟A說那段時間有事
於是兩方在吵
A質問B為什麼8/11-8/16有事不先講
B質問A為什麼訂機票這麼重要的事訂票前不先確認
B之所以沒說8/11-8/17有事是因為
B想說A一開始是訂7/25
不會卡到8/11
對方真的要訂8/11時再告訴對方8/11有事
因為不想被念重色輕友故沒有一開始就告知
A之所以直接訂票是因為
他覺得B如果有事會先說
A先前有問B會在日本待多久
B說7/21去然後一個月
但B沒有講他有別的行程
所以他認定B時間都可以
大家覺得誰問題比較大?
補充一下
A住B男友家的原因應該只是單純方便跟B共同出入
A的經濟狀況不錯
所以不是為了省旅館錢住
A覺得跟B很要好卻從沒一起出國玩過
所以A特地去找B玩
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雖然我覺得我是不是A跟這篇文沒甚麼關係
但滿足部分版友的好奇心:我不是A
之所以PO這篇文是想知道一般大眾是怎麼想的
另外做補充是因為看到有版友可能誤會A是為了免費住宿才去住B男友家
但A不是很在意金錢的人
也希望能以更中立的角度來呈現整件事的原貌
所以才釐清一下
謝謝大家回應
※ 編輯: viwocm (114.43.199.204), 06/13/2016 15:31:05
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