[心情] 更年期的婦女都特別難搞嗎?已回收
標題好像有點地圖砲,但是我只是想表達我的疑問。
我媽更年期已經兩年了,剛開始就是變得敏感易怒,容易想很多,進而有稍微憂鬱症症狀
。那時剛好我生了女兒,請媽媽幫忙,她生活因此有重心,也適應荷爾蒙改變後,便沒有
以上情緒起伏的情況。
其實我可以了解荷爾蒙綁架情緒的感覺,因為經歷了懷孕跟產後荷爾蒙的改變,那段期間
情緒起伏也是很大,現在想想都會覺得那時在意的點有點可笑。
我們家小孩跟父母間相處像朋友一樣,什麼話都可以說,什麼話題可以聊,但昨天晚上吃
飯卻讓我覺得怎麼隨便聊天就可以踩到地雷。
我們家是鄉下透天,跟阿公住,因為阿公無法生活自理,後來伯伯叔叔們就申請外勞來照
顧阿公起居,主要是在二樓。我媽一直以來的個性就像里長那樣,很熱心,遇到什麼陌生
人都可以聊。
端午節回鄉,看到外勞妹妹越來越胖,就是因為跟我上次回來看到時有明顯的改變。昨天
晚上出去吃飯,我就蝦聊,怎麼瑪XX越來越胖,感覺好像是壓力太大。我媽就說她會有什
麼壓力。我解釋,有時壓力是看不出來的,而且她離鄉背井,我們應該要多關心她。然後
,我媽就爆炸了,說我們家都沒人在要做什麼誰知道會有什麼壓力,現在也沒叫她幫忙打
掃做其他事只需要照顧阿公,還要多關心她。我想說她本來就只要做照顧阿公的事就好啊
,有什麼好說的,而且我就是聊天而已,有必要這麼激動嗎?我媽那表情實在讓我現在還
忘不了,好像我是說了什麼天理不容的事。當然當天就不歡而散,我媽就開始不理我。
其實這邊就是想抒發心情的無聊文章,就像上面說的,那個猙獰的表情到現在還印在腦子
裡,一個晚上都耿耿於懷。拜託請不要噓我不孝。
記者勿抄。
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