Re: [新聞] 長得不像? 男驗DNA才知2女兒都非親已回收
有個朋友跟男友談了3年多的戀愛,最近兩人終於談到要結婚的事了,男方才告知女方說他
的確未婚,但是有個快4歲的女兒,是男方的前女友跟男方分手後一年才抱回來找男方說是
男方的女兒。
男方把孩子接回家養了,也入了戶口,但心裡卻一直不知道是不是真的是他的女兒,沒有勇
氣驗dna。
朋友只問了他一句:[如果驗了不是你的,你會把孩子還回去給她媽嗎?],男方沈默了
,於是朋友說:[既然不會,那實在沒必要驗了。但是,既然養了,不管是不是你的女兒,你
的心裡都要把她當成你的女兒。]
朋友說,複雜的永遠是大人,不會是孩子。
其實我對這議題沒什麼想法,只是想到這件事而已。
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 49.215.84.36
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/WomenTalk/M.1460608940.A.E1F.html
推
我覺得我朋, , 1F
我覺得我朋, 1F
友心胸更寬大。04/14 12:44
推
04/14 12:45, , 2F
04/14 12:45, 2F
推
我只覺得我, , 3F
我只覺得我, 3F
朋友說的很對,複雜的永遠是大人,不會是孩子。04/14 12:46
推
04/14 12:46, , 4F
04/14 12:46, 4F
推
04/14 12:46, , 5F
04/14 12:46, 5F
→
04/14 12:46, , 6F
04/14 12:46, 6F
推
04/14 12:47, , 7F
04/14 12:47, 7F
推
她說她只覺, , 8F
她說她只覺, 8F
得她男友不應該瞞她3年多,但對於那孩子她是真的覺得那孩子很無辜很可憐。04/14 12:4
7
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 12:52:16
→
04/14 12:49, , 9F
04/14 12:49, 9F
推
04/14 12:52, , 10F
04/14 12:52, 10F
推
04/14 12:53, , 11F
04/14 12:53, 11F
→
04/14 12:53, , 12F
04/14 12:53, 12F
推
04/14 12:53, , 13F
04/14 12:53, 13F
→
04/14 12:53, , 14F
04/14 12:53, 14F
→
04/14 12:54, , 15F
04/14 12:54, 15F
→
04/14 12:54, , 16F
04/14 12:54, 16F
→
04/14 12:54, , 17F
04/14 12:54, 17F
→
04/14 12:55, , 18F
04/14 12:55, 18F
倒是沒想到這一點,謝謝提醒。
推
04/14 12:55, , 19F
04/14 12:55, 19F
→
04/14 12:55, , 20F
04/14 12:55, 20F
噓
04/14 12:55, , 21F
04/14 12:55, 21F
→
04/14 12:56, , 22F
04/14 12:56, 22F
→
04/14 12:56, , 23F
04/14 12:56, 23F
推
04/14 12:57, , 24F
04/14 12:57, 24F
朋友還是男方?亦或兩者都是吧…
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 13:00:19
→
04/14 12:58, , 25F
04/14 12:58, 25F
推
04/14 12:59, , 26F
04/14 12:59, 26F
推
04/14 13:00, , 27F
04/14 13:00, 27F
噓
04/14 13:01, , 28F
04/14 13:01, 28F
→
04/14 13:01, , 29F
04/14 13:01, 29F
→
04/14 13:02, , 30F
04/14 13:02, 30F
推
04/14 13:03, , 31F
04/14 13:03, 31F
其實是沒什麼關聯,但就只是想到這件事。
→
04/14 13:03, , 32F
04/14 13:03, 32F
→
04/14 13:04, , 33F
04/14 13:04, 33F
推
04/14 13:05, , 34F
04/14 13:05, 34F
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 13:07:26
→
04/14 13:05, , 35F
04/14 13:05, 35F
→
04/14 13:05, , 36F
04/14 13:05, 36F
→
04/14 13:06, , 37F
04/14 13:06, 37F
推
04/14 13:09, , 38F
04/14 13:09, 38F
我覺得這跟性別無關,我媽是女的,我媽也沒這樣做過,我是女的,我也沒這樣做過。這跟
“個人”比較有關。
推
04/14 13:10, , 39F
04/14 13:10, 39F
→
04/14 13:11, , 40F
04/14 13:11, 40F
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 13:13:28
→
04/14 13:11, , 41F
04/14 13:11, 41F
推
04/14 13:13, , 42F
04/14 13:13, 42F
推
04/14 13:14, , 43F
04/14 13:14, 43F
→
04/14 13:15, , 44F
04/14 13:15, 44F
推
04/14 13:17, , 45F
04/14 13:17, 45F
要不要臉我不知道,我只是在想她到底是抱持什麼心態在分手後獨自生下小孩再把孩子給
男方的,我對於這一點是比較好奇的。
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 13:21:03
推
04/14 13:19, , 46F
04/14 13:19, 46F
推
04/14 13:23, , 47F
04/14 13:23, 47F
我不覺得有什麼悲劇,重點在於是不是心甘情願養育這孩子而已。
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 13:26:21
推
04/14 13:25, , 48F
04/14 13:25, 48F
→
04/14 13:27, , 49F
04/14 13:27, 49F
推
04/14 13:31, , 50F
04/14 13:31, 50F
→
04/14 13:31, , 51F
04/14 13:31, 51F
→
04/14 13:32, , 52F
04/14 13:32, 52F
→
04/14 13:32, , 53F
04/14 13:32, 53F
推
04/14 13:33, , 54F
04/14 13:33, 54F
噓
04/14 13:38, , 55F
04/14 13:38, 55F
→
04/14 13:39, , 56F
04/14 13:39, 56F
→
04/14 13:49, , 57F
04/14 13:49, 57F
推
04/14 13:51, , 58F
04/14 13:51, 58F
→
04/14 13:52, , 59F
04/14 13:52, 59F
推
04/14 14:05, , 60F
04/14 14:05, 60F
→
04/14 14:05, , 61F
04/14 14:05, 61F
噓
04/14 14:06, , 62F
04/14 14:06, 62F
→
04/14 14:08, , 63F
04/14 14:08, 63F
噓
04/14 14:13, , 64F
04/14 14:13, 64F
→
04/14 14:14, , 65F
04/14 14:14, 65F
→
04/14 14:15, , 66F
04/14 14:15, 66F
多謝提醒。
※ 編輯: whiteny (49.215.84.36), 04/14/2016 14:28:00
推
04/14 14:35, , 67F
04/14 14:35, 67F
推
04/14 15:31, , 68F
04/14 15:31, 68F
推
04/14 15:50, , 69F
04/14 15:50, 69F
推
04/14 15:52, , 70F
04/14 15:52, 70F
→
04/14 15:52, , 71F
04/14 15:52, 71F
→
04/14 15:52, , 72F
04/14 15:52, 72F
→
04/14 15:54, , 73F
04/14 15:54, 73F
→
04/14 15:54, , 74F
04/14 15:54, 74F
→
04/14 15:56, , 75F
04/14 15:56, 75F
→
04/14 15:57, , 76F
04/14 15:57, 76F
推
04/14 17:16, , 77F
04/14 17:16, 77F