[問題] 會因為怕孩子過世而不敢生嗎消失
會想到這個不單是這兩天的隨機殺人案
我現在大學,高中的時候,小我一歲的鄰居小孩有天學校午休的時候跳樓自殺走了,沒有
預兆沒有遺言,可能是我們沒發現,但父母老師朋友都沒有頭緒,最後父母沒有追究,讓
他安靜的走
去年我的學長因為騎車車速太快,撞到來車,走了
這都是很重的痛,讓我害怕我以後無法及時發現孩子的不對勁,也害怕孩子不聽我騎車慢
點的叮嚀,也許這都事出有因是可以因教育跟相處而避免
但社會的不安定該怎麼辦?
我無法靠教育自己的孩子去避開沒有理智的殺人犯,或靠叮嚀去避開突如其來的酒駕傷人
有些長輩會覺得我的害怕是多餘,會跟我說很多事是注定
有些朋友會單純的安慰我說不要想太多,別因為害怕失去就不去擁有
可是我覺得我無法承受喪子之痛,可能會沮喪到後半生都渾渾噩噩
除了不生小孩,我也有亂想過要不要多生幾個,並不是多生就會少愛
我的想法是生一個一顆愛心,兩個就兩顆愛心,愛只會多不會少,如果哪天一顆心碎了,
我即使傷痛,還能努力為了其他心振作
但這只是亂想,情感不是這麼容易的事
有時想起朋友或看到社會新聞,就會冒出這些想法,可能會有盲點跟矛盾,只是我個人的
情感而已
你們會因為怕孩子過世而不敢生嗎?
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不會,我死跟孩子死對我來說不一樣
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嗯我也承認我杞人憂天,因為無法預防所帶來的無法承受,正在思考是不是乾脆沒有Q
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