看了婚姻版的 [求助] 見網友被老婆知道,堅持離婚
還有一直以來的很多文章
覺得全職媽媽真的好沒保障
老公見網友想偷吃,結果還有網友獻策說你現在優勢就是經濟
可以用經濟作為條件拖時間,例如要老婆接受一個月約會一次,冷靜三年再決定的條件
雖然說離婚好還是不離婚好只有當事人才知,那個老公狹義上也沒真的肉體外遇
可是看到網友們這樣討論,就覺得好生氣,也覺得值得警惕
(後面還有人回說她朋友就是一時爭一口氣離了,結果後來重回職場很不順很慘)
其實我自己的媽媽也是一樣,
爸媽感情不好,爸爸大男人又情緒控管很差,兩人經常吵架,也數度認真想離婚
後來也是因為金錢談不攏就擱置
但我媽其實並不算是就給老公養的那種女生
她在30年前念到碩士畢業,在那年代算很高學歷,畢業後也有在大學兼課
但她不久就結婚,生了我跟我弟,然後就順著我爸的希望在家帶小孩
又過了不久跟我爸一起創業開了間兩人公司,
雖然賺的不多,但就是可以維持全家用度,
因為只是兩人公司,當然也就沒領薪水沒分彼此的錢什麼的
而且我媽算比較會說話跟客戶應對,也比較會使用電腦(我爸完全不會)
所以真說起來公司的事我媽還做得比較多,同時做家事帶小孩她也沒少過
(我爸大男人只會煮泡麵,有一年他們鬧得很僵,我媽回娘家快一年,
那一年我爸就都吃外食或便利商店...他也是那年才學會用洗衣機-->大概結婚20年後)
但是他們吵離婚時我爸還是說財產都不給她
覺得很感概很警惕,也很為我媽抱不平覺得她很笨~~~唉~~~
所以雖然現在跟未婚夫感情很好,將來也是有點希望小孩能自己帶
但我覺得自己以後頂多請育嬰假半年吧
全職主婦真的是太沒有保障了啊~~~
女孩們覺得呢?
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