最近放生了一位朋友 簡稱 A
之前因為是聊得來的同事開始了這段友情
之後 A 先離職
離職之後聯絡頻率大幅降低 (正常現象)
即時有聯絡 A 也非常排斥我在其它同事面前提到她的動態
其中有一個當初和我跟 A 都很熟的同事 簡稱 B
B 留職停薪時 A 離職 最近 B 復職
A 一知道 B 復職之後就馬上叮囑我不能跟 B 透露她的近況
這種感覺我很不喜歡 因為我覺得大家都是朋友
不懂為什麼要這麼隔閡
最後放生的點是
A 是竹山人
最近公司來了另一個竹山人
我只是跟 A 聊到這位新認識的同事
A 馬上就說不要在他面前提到我
我默默的只說 我只是跟他說我也認識一個竹山的朋友
就沒有接下去的話題了
可能是我的個性比較大剌剌
我不太能理解為什麼在共同朋友裡還彼此有很多小團體的秘密
或是如果朋友之間分享的話題 在我看來沒甚麼大不了的
卻在 A 眼中需要保持隱私
到後來對於自己一直要警惕不能提到 A 的所有事情我感到很疲憊
所以最後我就放生 A 了
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我以為共同的朋友圈聊到彼此是正常的
不過看來也是一種不尊重的行為
了解了~ 彼此放生是正解!
※ 編輯: ooonajan (123.205.93.37), 11/18/2015 10:24:49
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