[心情] 女生需要的貼心很為難男生嗎?消失
因為半夜鼻子過敏無法入睡只好來發文了。
我和男友交往時間快兩年了,男友的個性比較愛面子,脾氣也很硬(男生25歲真的都還是
血氣方剛啊)。
我很多事情都能夠包容或是自己消化,但就是我需要一些貼心的時候他沒辦法做到會讓我
很沮喪。
先來說說今晚過敏的事情吧。
我睡覺之前可能是喝了冰的飲料所以開始鼻子過敏,整個人昏沈不說,鼻塞是最令人不舒
服的,整個鼻子塞滿了鼻水,躺著不是,坐著也不是。直到要睡前,我以為男友會主動幫
我按摩鼻子附近的穴道,沒想到他卻是希望我能幫他按摩,不過他也知道我狀況不佳沒辦
法做到他希望的,所以就碎念了幾句後就躺平準備睡了。我其實心裡很希望他能幫我按按
穴道,可是我心想,他希望我幫他按摩我做不到,那就別開口麻煩他了。
躺平後沒幾分鐘,男友就說:開口要我幫你按摩會死嗎?我就是不要主動幫你按摩,免得
你覺得我這樣做是理所當然。
我聽到他這樣說,心都涼了一半了,我沒回應他,畢竟我有點沮喪,也知道回應他可能也
不會有什麼好口氣。最後我盡量避免讓自己的鼻塞發出聲音,然後男友也沒表示什麼,他
就自己睡了。
這陣子,我常和男友討論我需要的貼心,或是某些時候我希望被疼愛及呵護,例如:我難
過的時候擁抱我一下,或是吵架的時候可以不要對我說話尖酸刻薄,包容愛他的人不要老
是逞口舌之快等等...。
討論的結果是,男友說他可以做到我所謂的貼心,讓我感受到疼愛或呵護,但,那不是他
。
難道對自己喜歡的人貼心或是呵護真的很難嗎?
還是,我的要求太多太過分了呢?
手機排版比較亂,麻煩大家多包容了。
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