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下禮拜男友要來住我家大概兩年,
家人已經為他整理出一間房間,新買床墊&衣櫃
家裡只有爸爸,媽媽
在男友住家裡兩年的這段時間,
就是我媽媽煮三餐(可能有時候去外面吃)
每天的早餐應該是用買的,
午餐和晚餐媽媽煮,通常有消夜,也是買的
偶爾全家出去外面吃餐廳(1人500左右)
我家不會和男友收任何錢,
就算出去外面吃也是家人付錢,因為家人堅持不會和男友拿錢
(可能覺得全家+男友一起出去吃飯,跟他拿錢很不好意思)
但這兩年的開銷累積起來也是一筆數目
我該和男友拿錢嗎?(他很樂意付錢,他說他想拿錢給我們家)
如果真的和男友拿錢,又該怎麼拿,拿多少呢?
直接說:"你給我xxx元",這樣嗎?
問過家人意見,他們是說覺得沒關係
我想尋問大家覺得...
1.沒關係,就這樣?(白吃白喝白住)
2.多少拿一點?(可是要怎麼算錢?房租?三餐?)
家人是非常堅持不會和他拿錢,就算男友要給錢,也只能私下給我
(但我就是不知道該不該拿?拿多少?而且怕好像有點乾尬)
不知道大家有沒有什麼更好的想法?謝謝
(他這一,兩年因為一些因素一定要住我家。我們預計兩年後結婚)
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