[心情] 總算是攤牌了消失
三年多的感情在昨天終於結束了,
其實已經醞釀多時,毅然決然的向他提出分手。
劈腿的對象是他在外面新認識的女生,
其實我觀察很久了只是一直沒有問清楚,
而心裡大概也有個底,
畢竟他把我標記他的照片都隱藏了,
還有很多奇怪的跡象。
這段感情一開始他身邊就出現過很多曖昧對象,
沒有整理好的關係,其實是根本不去整理;
我從一開始的悲憤而自己去跟這些對象連繫,
默默的幫他把那些關係都掃得一乾二淨了,
那時候覺得我好苦,我為什麼要那麼委屈。
在那之後我們都很穩定,但其實我心裡一直默默想著,
再對不起我的話我就會離開,因為我不想讓自己太過難受。
我以為這段感情接下來都可以很安穩順利,
沒想到他還是重蹈覆轍了。
發現的當下並不只有難過傷心,
反而覺得我終於可以解脫了可以跟他說再見了。
所以昨天晚上和他提出分手,但他不承認他劈腿的事實,
反過來責備我說我這樣讓他覺得很可怕,
我很想很想找那個劈腿的對象出來對質,
但我不想要牽扯到那女生,畢竟她什麼都不知道。
最後他說他尊重我的決定,於是我們分手了。
當下真的是鬆了一口氣!在心中有打勝仗的感覺!
可能是因為發現很久了,而我也是計畫性的想分手,
所以現在心情意外的平靜,雖然朋友們都很擔心我...。
他最後對我說,這是他最後一次叫我寶貝,
他會慢慢習慣不能叫我寶貝;
然後我朋友知道他說這些後告訴我:
「當然不能叫你寶貝,因為寶貝換人了。」
能有一群很可愛的朋友真的很棒!
我終於解脫了!!
我愛我自己,我愛我的朋友們!
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那女生應該是不知道,但我也不想和他們有所牽扯了,祝福他們,也希望他能好好珍惜她
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