和男友已經準備結婚了,
前幾個月為了方便籌備婚事搬來和男友同住,
男友之前有交往多年的前任,但也分手約二年了,
但因為之前交往很多年也住在一起,所以他的住處遺留很多前任的東西
男友也不是會好好整理房間的人,東西放著也都不清理,
一直到我要搬來,有告訴他希望他自已好好清理不該讓我看到的東西,
如果想留的就好好的藏好,要考慮到我的感受,他也同意整理。
想不到後來搬來要整理出放我東西的地方時,
到處都看到前任的東西,衣服、鞋子、化妝品甚至衛生棉等……
雖然覺得不太開心,但也一同把這些東西清掉了,
據他的說法是他有清了,但他真的不太會整理東西所以很多都沒清到,
後來一起生活後,陸陸續續一直發現只要我當初沒有動到的地方,
很有可能就會突然出現"奇怪"的東西,
例如,他專門放西裝的衣櫃,我搬來時也沒動過,
之前在拍婚紗討論要用他哪一套西裝時,就被我發現裡面有女生的衣服
那個櫃子我平常不會動,但他每天穿西裝都會開。
然後他的書桌抽屜在之前為了幫他找東西就打開過,
也有許多前任的東西,照片、甚至是存褶等…
我故意跟他說,書桌我就不整理了,叫他自已把不該放的東西整理好
結果他就一直放著完全沒動…
再來是偶爾信箱裡會收到前任的信用卡、手機等的帳單或通知信,
我在家都用他的電腦,
前一陣子還看到他的email裡有不明的水費、電費的電子收據…
剛開始總是安慰自已因為他們交往很久了,生活有一些牽扯也是難免的,
昨天又收到他前任的帳單,有種有完沒完的感覺
不知道各位女孩們,這樣的情況是我反應過大嗎???
一直看到前任的名字和東西感受真的很糟~~~唉
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是的,今天中午就跟他表達我的不爽了,
他的意思是之前他不知道收到帳單可以請銀行不要再寄了,
他沒有和前任聯絡,也不想特地為這件事聯絡,所以就等對方發現慢慢改過來,
然後確實也是越來越少收到了
所以之後他收到就直接丟掉,
今天知道我很在意,他會打電話去他知道的銀行或單位,請他們不要再寄了,
家裡的東西他也會再整理一次
※ 編輯: iamjun (61.230.127.249), 09/10/2015 17:48:39
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我相信前女友應該是沒聯絡了,他的家人、朋友、上司、同學都見過也知道要結婚了
除了上班我們都在一起,他接的電話我也都知道是誰打的
前女友完全沒有出現過,我可以放心的
※ 編輯: iamjun (61.230.127.249), 09/10/2015 17:54:42
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