[新聞] 嫁沒比較好、幹嘛要嫁 她這樣說有錯嗎?消失
自評長相中上、父母自營公司、家中擁有北市7間房(全無貸款)、目前在國外唸碩士的27
歲男網友要來靠北了!男網友說,即使家境不錯,但他認為「靠自己」很重要,所以在16
歲就出來打工,21歲拚到中小企業PM,目前出國唸書也是靠自己存款,但沒想到女友卻和
自己差很大。
他說女友是月薪4萬的上班族,父母也經營公司,男網友再度強調「共同打拚感」對他來
說很重要,所以曾試探問女友,願不願意和他一起聯名買房、共同扛房貸?女友卻是回覆
「自己加油」,甚至也說她父母認為「嫁出去沒有比較好,幹嘛還嫁?結婚如果還要拋頭
露面工作,也不必嫁了!」這讓他深感現在的女生不付出只想拿好處,鑲鑽的!
這篇發文在mobile01獲得相當多的討論,「你們家有7間房,你買房問題反而會讓女友覺
得奇怪吧」、「要同甘共苦但卻找了一個家裡有錢從小到大沒有吃過甚麼苦的女生,這不
是一開始就找錯地方了嗎」、「男女本來就不平權」、「嫁了沒有比較好,本來就不要嫁
呀,這句哪有錯?」(即時新聞中心/綜合報導)
http://goo.gl/sGKzO4
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這種事情好像越來越多,覺得雙方都有點問題。但男生說了一件事,他在意「共同打拚感
」。我是覺得可以一起努力買房很有成就感,但也不該強迫一半要同意,不知道板上女生
會在意共同打拚這件事嗎?
還有,結婚當然不比交往簡單,要考慮雙方經濟、家庭、價值觀等因素,但除了這些可以
衡量的外在因素外,雙方的感情難道不也是重要的因素嗎?所以,何謂嫁了比原來好?這
可以怎麼衡量?
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