[心情] 父母覺得學歷跟薪水不成比例等消失
今天跟父母聊天講著講著就被碎念一番, 自己是會計系畢業回南部後在有前十大的會計
師事務所上班,薪水含勞健保24k,但自己的同學都在台北的事務所工作薪水28~32k,也
因為回南部薪水很低造成心情低落過,但後來覺得算了先做再說。
父母覺得他們用心栽培我,薪水竟然沒很高甚至比服務業的薪水海低,他們覺得我一定要
考會計師跟計帳士才能有未來。媽媽常把朋友小孩是會計師娶的媳婦也是會計師掛在嘴邊
,嘴巴說沒有心裡也想要門當戶對。
最近跟男友在規劃一年內結婚所以我們雙方都很努力存錢(已訂婚,雙方父母同意),男
友在國外還在唸書(醫類)但有穩定工作(打工),每個月大概領45k有固定存錢,自給自
足,但我父母覺得窮人就算靠自己認真工作以現在這個時勢還是很難翻身而且男友現在還
是學生而已。
綜合上述父母覺得我薪水低就是因為沒證照又急著要嫁人,然後就牽拖男友,用消遣的語
氣說以後你去美國你們一定會變月光族存不到錢啦,早知道就讓你念高職畢業去服務業就
好,唸書唸的比別人多也沒有賺比較多。
我覺得很煩,自己已經有唸書在準備,但證照也沒有那麼好考,加上男友是個很認真工作
的人,每次父母念自己的時候就會牽拖到他那邊去。而且南部薪水低也不是自己能控制的
:/雖然父母也是關心自己,但有時候他們說話的語氣另自己很難以接受。
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