[討論] 這樣的觀念是對的嗎?消失
剛剛一個好姐妹來找我聊這件事
我聽完是覺得男生有點小氣...
朋友沒在用批踢踢,所以我上來代發問
補充一下我朋友跟她男友是小遠距,
只有假日才會見面,
隔週輪流去對方縣市這樣。
但買了車一定是放男生那...
以下用第一人稱描述
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我跟男友是有共識要結婚的,
但兩人目前都還太年輕(出社會才兩年)
想要各自打拼一陣子存些錢。
男友常說一想到未來要買房壓力就很大,
一直抱怨房價高物價漲,
他存不了什麼錢。
但其實我跟男友兩人薪資都還可以,
男友50k,我40幾k,
兩人都有儲蓄習慣。
我們的公司都是會穩定調薪的,
所以我對於買房這件事還算有信心。
然後男友一直想買車。
而且是看volvo或Audi 等級的。
但其實目前我們真的用不到車,
我也一直告訴他不用現在買結婚後再說。
前幾天天氣很熱,我抱怨太陽太大了很曬,
不想騎車出門約會。
男友竟然說:「那妳快點贊助我買車啊」
當下我覺得有點莫名奇妙,
你買車為何我要付錢?
他又說:「因為會載妳啊~」
我:「車子會掛我的名字嗎?要分這麼清楚那以後孩子要不要一個跟我姓?過年我回我家
你回你家?」
男生竟然說:「好啊可以啊~孩子都跟妳姓也可以啊~我爸媽不會說什麼的~」
(但事實是男生是獨子,怎麼可能沒有傳宗接代壓力)
除此之外男友還常有意無意說我花錢太兇
或是我們常約會讓他存不了錢等等...
好像金錢壓力真的很大...
所以我真的該出錢贊助他買車嗎?
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理性上男女平等是沒錯,
買房的話因為是長遠的事情
當然我朋友也跟男友有共識會共同負擔。
可是男生理直氣壯的說女生該一起出買車錢的話
這樣的觀念是對的嗎?
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我朋友自己也會開車,
也想自己買車,
而且她們兩個目前是小遠距...
短期內應該不會花到很多比例吧我想...
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※ 編輯: sakanafish (111.185.87.48), 06/14/2015 22:56:16
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是以此為條件的意思嗎?
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