作者: aiiiohy71 (Piz) 看板: WomenTalk
標題: [閒聊] 身邊的男生好麻吉(文長)
時間: Thu Jun 11 18:59:23 2015
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想跟大家聊聊身邊的男生麻吉。
雖然女性朋友也可以聊心事,不過我個性很中性,又是那種什麼都能聊(男生之間的話題
也一樣),所以我覺得有男生麻吉是一件也很幸福的事,尤其是可以一輩子的那種朋友。
或許有些人會認為男女之間沒有所謂的純友誼,兩個人太好也容易像大仁哥又青姐那樣,
造成對方另一半的反感(插個話,最近韓劇製作人羅PD和卓PD就蠻類似這樣情節),我有
時也會想,是不是會造成困擾,不過當事人都很無所謂....好像也沒事。
在我念專科時候,有個男生跟我很合的來,我們可以聊到半夜三更都還是聊沒完,好到睡
他房間也沒關係(明明我們就住在走路5分鐘的附近-_-),即使畢業都超過20年了,其他
同學根本沒聯絡了,我們還是常常見面吃飯,他就算都結婚生子了,也不會拒絕跟我出來
吃飯喝酒打屁聊天,以前唸書也一起到外縣市過夜好幾次。
前兩年,我和另一個男生友人合伙做生意,他也已婚,但平常沒上班純做投資,所以也經
常混在一起,甚至我也跟他家人兩次去環島(就老婆沒跟)、出國玩什麼的,身邊很多其
他朋友經常都以為我們是一對,但我們就很單純,頂多就是勾肩搭背、拉手、互踹之類這
種肢體接觸,並沒有什麼更進一步的...
不過最近有新認識的女生朋友,看我們這樣就一直會提醒我要收斂一點,然後就搬一堆道
理說對方老婆一定會生氣什麼的,也有女生朋友說,她絕不可能讓自己老公跟我出門....
問題是我自覺我很無害啊,雖然經常混在一起,但對方吃飯時間就回去做飯了、雖然出國
或是環島我們也是各睡各的房間,乾脆把我當男的就可以了啊-_-。何必腦補我會幹嘛搶
老公之類...根本就不可能啊XD
其實也不是來討拍,而是想,男女之間的感情其實應該有很多種,對我的同學和夥伴我都
很珍惜,因為他們都真的對我很好(雖然也會被修理和陶侃),我們可以維持這麼久的感
情也很難得,所以真的很希望女性朋友的恐嚇(X)提醒(O)也不必擔心...光明正大的異
性朋友是無害的啦!畢竟重要的一點是,他們並沒有把我當成女的,我根本是男的啊!
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其實我也知道各位的疑慮,講白點,我根本是個男人在他們眼裏,所以才更這麼無所謂吧!
※ 編輯: aiiiohy71 (58.114.193.182), 06/11/2015 19:11:45
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我有問過耶,同學老婆認識我,他跟我出門有和老婆報備,跟夥伴出國老婆也有講,他家人也把我當一家人看
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