我男友說真的個性很好,也對我很好
可是我還是有點小抱怨
我們相處的情形是這樣的
我是在外面租房子,他是住在家裡(40分鐘的車程)
平常上班日1個星期會有1天他來找我晚餐
假日則是會要我去他家住
問題在於我其實不喜歡住他家
(但我不去我們根本沒有好好獨處的時間)
雖然他爸媽對我很好,三餐都會煮好飯等我們吃
但就有種拘束感
第一:我明明喜歡躺著沙發或是盤著腿或是隨便擺
(反正就不是會合著腿端莊坐著的那種人)
但是他媽媽就說過我
於是我現在在他們客廳坐著都覺得好痛苦
全身很不舒服~很想蠕動的感覺...........
第二:有時候出門逛街不想在外面用餐但又不想回家跟家人吃
就是想可以兩個人買喜歡吃的東西一起回家吃
這樣的獨處也是不可能的....
不管是買回家吃或吃家裡煮的都要跟家人一起吃
第三:我男友的家人非常疼他
所以他每天上下班都是由爸爸開車接送的
也就是說如果來接我下班也是他爸爸開車來
同事看到也覺得我也太大牌讓男友爸爸接送
我也很不喜歡這種感覺
所以現在都寧願自己慢慢搭車也堅持不讓他們來接我
第四:我們要出門即便是散散步都要向媽媽報告
(我們都30幾歲了...)
我常常跟我男友反應覺得這樣讓我不舒服
但他都說他覺得很習慣是我想太多
是他真的不能理解嗎?還是真的是我的問題?
我只想好好的談正常的戀愛啊~
還是大家都是這樣談戀愛的.......?!
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