[閒聊] 小孩在捷運上喝奶消失
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我要先聲明,這裡指的小孩不是以奶為主食的小小孩,是已經吃一般食品且可以溝通的小孩。
我大概一個禮拜前在北捷某站等捷運,等的時候旁邊有一對母女+阿嬤
小女生看起來大概4.5歲,會跑跑跳跳。
講話滿大聲的,媽媽有叫他安靜一點,他也有降低音量,可見是可溝通的。
後來上車後我坐在她們對面滑手機,也沒聽到小孩吵鬧聲。
30秒後抬頭,看到阿嬤抱著小孩,小孩拿著奶瓶在喝奶,媽媽坐在旁邊滑手機。
當下是有點錯愕,但又很遲疑該不該勸阻。
因為小朋友本身沒有背包包,所以一定媽媽或阿嬤拿給她的,而且至少旁人看起來媽媽跟阿嬤是覺得這沒什麼。
因為我對於這種「疑似」有「小孩就該體諒」想法的媽媽有莫名恐懼,再加上坐兩站就要下車就沒有去勸說。(當然這只是我的腦補,我不知道他真的態度為何,所以我沒有要鞭她,只是說我不敢去勸。)
但我實在不太能理解這樣的情況有什麼需要在車上喝奶的必要。
因為他們跟我一起等車,這站也不是轉運站,所以排除交通時間很長的狀況。
上車後小朋友也沒有吵鬧,所以也不是為了安撫他不得不應急的措施。
除了以奶為主食,且還沒辦法講道理的小小孩,我覺得到了可以講道理的年紀,都應該先試著安撫小朋友到站外再餵。
或如果當下真的難以掌控,先在車廂餵了,到下站出站好好餵他跟安撫是比較適當的方法。
但我承認我很孬,因為台灣人大多對小朋友標準寬很多。
如果我去講了,媽媽反過來說「就是小朋友啊,有什麼辦法」,我想可能應該有人會贊同他不是我。
最後變成多管閒事又不近人情的正義魔人。
想知道對於小朋友在捷運上喝奶大家的想法是怎麼樣呢?
覺得怎麼樣的情況可接受?怎麼樣不行呢?
再次聲明,我討論的不是以奶為主食,還有還無法跟他講道理的小小孩。
是已經以一般食物為主食,可以講道理、跟他溝通的年紀的小孩。
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