各位女孩大家好~此版首po
感覺上在這個版比較能得到一些正面的回應
主題開始:
我家在以前算是小康的家庭
但是隨著時代在變,我爸爸也面臨到了結構性的失業
從那時候開始,我爸變成了一個好吃懶做,都待在家連工作也不去找的人
而這個情況從我高中時就開始了
因為媽媽現在很認真的在做網拍,所以我們家的情況還勉強過得去
而我們的學費也是用就學貸款來支付,生活費也是靠自己打工來爭取
現在的情況就是
我爸他不但不去工作,整天在家閒閒沒事就算了
還到處去跟親戚借錢,然後也用我媽的信用卡借了約6~7萬
結果搞得自己還不出來,又回去跟我媽要錢,沒要到就開始耍脾氣
然後要他去工作就會說我們看不起他之類的,整天又在想說要把我們家的房、車子賣掉
可是貸款根本都是我媽在付阿,他只是因為缺錢就隨便開口說要把這些賣掉對嗎?
自己不去找工作就算了,還沒事背了一堆債要來壓我媽,真的有點看不下去
現在跟我媽聊天聊到我爸,我媽整個人就會變得很憂鬱,連帶我們心情也跟著不好
可是我們能夠做的除了叫他去工作還有甚麼呢?
偏偏說了他也不會聽...
現在我們家的氣氛其實是和諧的,只是不知道會從什麼時候開始因為我爸的關係而垮掉
嬤嬤都在拜託我們勸勸我爸,我們實際上也勸了
可是一勸下去他不是裝死,就是說我媽又跟我們說了什麼
要不然就是整個氣氛搞得很僵
這件事的問題我知道都是出在我爸那還活在過去的心理
可是就算知道了問題,也不知道該如何解決
求版上的大家幫幫忙,謝謝了...
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 1.175.151.166
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/WomenTalk/M.1431180040.A.DE4.html
推
05/09 22:03, , 1F
05/09 22:03, 1F
推
05/09 22:05, , 2F
05/09 22:05, 2F
推
05/09 22:06, , 3F
05/09 22:06, 3F
推
05/09 22:06, , 4F
05/09 22:06, 4F
→
05/09 22:06, , 5F
05/09 22:06, 5F
推
05/09 22:06, , 6F
05/09 22:06, 6F
→
05/09 22:06, , 7F
05/09 22:06, 7F
→
05/09 22:07, , 8F
05/09 22:07, 8F
→
05/09 22:07, , 9F
05/09 22:07, 9F
→
05/09 22:07, , 10F
05/09 22:07, 10F
→
05/09 22:08, , 11F
05/09 22:08, 11F
推
05/09 22:08, , 12F
05/09 22:08, 12F
→
05/09 22:08, , 13F
05/09 22:08, 13F
→
05/09 22:08, , 14F
05/09 22:08, 14F
噓
05/09 22:08, , 15F
05/09 22:08, 15F
→
05/09 22:09, , 16F
05/09 22:09, 16F
推
05/09 22:10, , 17F
05/09 22:10, 17F
→
05/09 22:10, , 18F
05/09 22:10, 18F
→
05/09 22:10, , 19F
05/09 22:10, 19F
→
05/09 22:11, , 20F
05/09 22:11, 20F
→
05/09 22:11, , 21F
05/09 22:11, 21F
→
05/09 22:12, , 22F
05/09 22:12, 22F
→
05/09 22:13, , 23F
05/09 22:13, 23F
推
05/09 22:14, , 24F
05/09 22:14, 24F
→
05/09 22:14, , 25F
05/09 22:14, 25F
推
05/09 22:16, , 26F
05/09 22:16, 26F
→
05/09 22:16, , 27F
05/09 22:16, 27F
→
05/09 22:16, , 28F
05/09 22:16, 28F
→
05/09 22:16, , 29F
05/09 22:16, 29F
推
05/09 22:16, , 30F
05/09 22:16, 30F
→
05/09 22:18, , 31F
05/09 22:18, 31F
→
05/09 22:19, , 32F
05/09 22:19, 32F
→
05/09 22:19, , 33F
05/09 22:19, 33F
→
05/09 22:19, , 34F
05/09 22:19, 34F
→
05/09 22:20, , 35F
05/09 22:20, 35F
→
05/09 22:21, , 36F
05/09 22:21, 36F
→
05/09 22:21, , 37F
05/09 22:21, 37F
→
05/09 22:22, , 38F
05/09 22:22, 38F
→
05/09 22:23, , 39F
05/09 22:23, 39F
→
05/09 22:23, , 40F
05/09 22:23, 40F
→
05/09 22:24, , 41F
05/09 22:24, 41F
→
05/09 22:26, , 42F
05/09 22:26, 42F
推
05/09 22:26, , 43F
05/09 22:26, 43F
→
05/09 22:26, , 44F
05/09 22:26, 44F
→
05/09 22:28, , 45F
05/09 22:28, 45F
→
05/09 22:29, , 46F
05/09 22:29, 46F
→
05/09 22:30, , 47F
05/09 22:30, 47F
→
05/09 22:30, , 48F
05/09 22:30, 48F
→
05/09 22:30, , 49F
05/09 22:30, 49F
→
05/09 22:31, , 50F
05/09 22:31, 50F
→
05/09 22:32, , 51F
05/09 22:32, 51F
→
05/09 22:33, , 52F
05/09 22:33, 52F
→
05/09 22:34, , 53F
05/09 22:34, 53F
→
05/09 22:34, , 54F
05/09 22:34, 54F
→
05/09 22:34, , 55F
05/09 22:34, 55F
推
05/09 22:38, , 56F
05/09 22:38, 56F
→
05/09 22:39, , 57F
05/09 22:39, 57F
→
05/09 22:39, , 58F
05/09 22:39, 58F
→
05/09 22:39, , 59F
05/09 22:39, 59F
推
05/09 22:40, , 60F
05/09 22:40, 60F
→
05/09 22:43, , 61F
05/09 22:43, 61F
推
05/09 22:48, , 62F
05/09 22:48, 62F
推
05/09 22:51, , 63F
05/09 22:51, 63F
→
05/09 22:51, , 64F
05/09 22:51, 64F
推
05/09 22:58, , 65F
05/09 22:58, 65F
→
05/09 22:58, , 66F
05/09 22:58, 66F
→
05/09 23:02, , 67F
05/09 23:02, 67F
推
05/09 23:56, , 68F
05/09 23:56, 68F
→
05/09 23:56, , 69F
05/09 23:56, 69F
→
05/09 23:56, , 70F
05/09 23:56, 70F
→
05/09 23:56, , 71F
05/09 23:56, 71F
推
05/10 02:35, , 72F
05/10 02:35, 72F
推
05/10 08:48, , 73F
05/10 08:48, 73F
→
05/10 09:51, , 74F
05/10 09:51, 74F
→
05/10 09:51, , 75F
05/10 09:51, 75F
→
05/10 12:18, , 76F
05/10 12:18, 76F
→
05/10 12:18, , 77F
05/10 12:18, 77F
→
05/10 12:18, , 78F
05/10 12:18, 78F
→
05/10 12:18, , 79F
05/10 12:18, 79F
推
05/10 23:14, , 80F
05/10 23:14, 80F
→
05/10 23:14, , 81F
05/10 23:14, 81F
→
05/10 23:15, , 82F
05/10 23:15, 82F
→
05/10 23:16, , 83F
05/10 23:16, 83F
推
05/11 01:55, , 84F
05/11 01:55, 84F
→
05/11 01:55, , 85F
05/11 01:55, 85F