[舉手] 處處女的關鍵作戰!
我是之前發問過ㄧ篇文的羊男(幫分析處處女想法),最近和自己的女主角持續曖昧中,
好,觀察了處女女大概兩個多月,我在版上拼命爬了很多文,ㄧ直研究作功課思考戰略,
也一直持續保持著慢慢刷好感中...
目前正向的互動狀態:
1.女生主動邀約過兩次;男方主動邀約,女生都是很乾脆的答應。若邀約真的有事,女生
也會主動
說改期。
2.女生時常會主動丟Line,有時很密集每天都傳;某次簡訊男方說身體不舒服,女生不久
便來電關心。
3.會用甜蜜的稱呼,像:親愛的。也有"我剛剛夢見你耶"...這類簡訊。
4.女生會主動做食物的給男方,像蛋糕、熬湯等等。
5.女生生日當天願意和男生單獨出去。
6.雙方都很有默契的不會說出"你(妳)是好朋友這類話"
感謝此版讓我受益良多,目前有幾個疑問:
之前看了很多戀愛心理學和自己的過往經驗,都說不要告白和交往前別送手工製品,太早
攤牌
的話,可能會將情勢改變....怎麼拿捏時機點就是我的疑問了...
1.像目前這樣的曖昧中,送處處女生日手工卡片到底是不是ㄧ個好的策略?會不會反而造
成壓力?
好像無形中告訴對方"嘿,我很喜歡妳喔!"是不是也可能被打回好友區?
2.如果不告白,採用直接牽手測試對方反應呢?處處女會不會主動問"我們這樣的關係是
?"
但爬文版友們都是說ㄧ定要ㄧ定要告白...像處處女這麼矜持,是不是打死都不會主動
問?
因為再20天左右,處處女要飛回國了,之後11月中才回來唸書,我想若這個時機點一過,
很
可能就會冷掉或者沒有現在這樣的曖昧好感了,畢竟暫時見不到面...現在的每一步,我
想都很
關鍵...希望可以水到渠成...
請各位給我些意見吧.......謝謝!
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