[舉手] 處女女面對前男友&個性容易改嗎?
hi大家好,
我是上升處女的雙女,第一次來貴版po文,請多指教.
閃光瓶男的前任是處女女,
當初部份因為處女而跟我分手,但是跟處女交往的過程是越來越痛苦,
處女對水瓶是百般挑剔與不信任,吵架次數越來越多,
每次吵架到最後都是要水瓶不要再找她,女生也會搞失蹤.
最後他們分手(水瓶受不了).
分手後女生消失了一陣子(應該是加入某種靈修團體吧)
水瓶回頭跟我在一起.
一個月後處女女出現,遇到瓶男時會求他復合,會主動想單獨約瓶男見面,
當然水瓶都拒絕,並清楚告知與我是認真交往.
後來處女發簡訊給水瓶說既然水瓶已經找到幸福她也不再強求(之類的語意)
而且即使水瓶要跟她復合她也不再信任水瓶,因為他們分手後水瓶就回頭找我.
但是............問題出現了!
就以上狀況看似已經放下水瓶了吧?
但是今年年初,水瓶租屋處隔壁的公司老闆也認識處女,然後找她去上班,
處女去了!而且還住在那間公司樓上,
她跟水瓶不但是鄰居,因為格局關係還共用廚房...見面機會增加,
甚至當她有做飯時,會主動幫水瓶留一份...
從務實的角度看,處女當時需要一份工作解決生活開銷,
而找她去上班的公司成員也都認識,而且還有地方住,的確解決兩項生活困境.
然而,對於水瓶住他們隔壁這件事,處女或許事先知道?並不感到訝異,
這表示.....她還想等水瓶回頭?對水瓶還有意思嗎?(會順便留飯給他)
就我自己的想法是,如果能正常面對曾經有過感情的對象,表示對這個人已經釋懷了,
如果還沒釋懷,是不願意經常見到有感情但是不能在一起的人.
(或許會想念,但是會HOLD住自己,不找對方見面)
版上的處女女們有何見解呢?
(若有曾經與水瓶交往過得更歡迎賜教)
謝謝.
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