[舉手] 該如何問他?
之前有上來詢問處女男的行為是不是在追我?(文章已刪)
像是送香水 默默把我喜歡或需要的東西準備好等等
大家給我的答案都是肯定的
後來他又不時找我出去吃飯看展覽等等
當我要付自己部分的金額時他又總是說不用
我只好在工作上幫忙或是另外買東西給他來回饋
每個同事朋友聽了我的敘述都覺得事情不單純= =
說他以前是跟朋友出去都會各付各的的人
不過每次出去除了總是不收我的錢 還有把行程規畫得很好外
也沒有其他更明白的表示
因為身處同一個辦公室 共同的朋友又很多(我們是大學同學 現在當同事)
我又不是個喜歡把一件事懸在心上很久的女生 (標準沒耐心射手座 ....)
這樣撲朔迷離的時間越久 在辦公室與他相處總覺得有些不自在
以前他還沒對我做這些事前 我都是像哥兒們似的靠很近也不避諱
同事有人甚至會說我對他講話不太有禮貌 = = 不過他也從來沒對我生氣就是了
現在我跟他講話就客氣禮貌許多 總覺得像以前那樣親近有點怪
---------------以上是鋪陳很久的前言Orz------------------------
現在問題來了....
經過一兩個月的觀察 我覺得他對我的方式是有些特別
至少超出一般朋友的程度了
所以想找時間問他一下 不過該怎麼問就是學問了....
因為以後還要當同事至少兩三年 他本來就又是我最好的朋友之一
萬一弄不好會很尷尬.....最怕連朋友都當不成了
目前我是想私下用半開玩笑的語氣問他: 你最近是中樂透了嗎? 不然怎麼一直請我吃飯?
再看看他怎麼回答....
畢竟我也不想自我感覺良好 萬一他另有其他原因才對我特別好
豈不糗很大~~~~~
不知道各位處女座的大家覺得這樣問妥不妥當??
還是現在先不要問 等他自己說呢? 不過感覺那要等很久 @@
爬文之後發現他真的非常具有處女座的特質~~~~樣樣都跟他很像
先謝謝各位給的建議~~~^^
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc)
◆ From: 218.172.248.228
→
02/16 15:40, , 1F
02/16 15:40, 1F
→
02/16 15:41, , 2F
02/16 15:41, 2F
→
02/16 15:42, , 3F
02/16 15:42, 3F
→
02/16 15:42, , 4F
02/16 15:42, 4F
→
02/16 15:44, , 5F
02/16 15:44, 5F
→
02/16 15:45, , 6F
02/16 15:45, 6F
→
02/16 15:48, , 7F
02/16 15:48, 7F
→
02/16 15:48, , 8F
02/16 15:48, 8F
推
02/16 15:50, , 9F
02/16 15:50, 9F
→
02/16 15:50, , 10F
02/16 15:50, 10F
→
02/16 15:51, , 11F
02/16 15:51, 11F
→
02/16 15:51, , 12F
02/16 15:51, 12F
→
02/16 15:52, , 13F
02/16 15:52, 13F
→
02/16 15:52, , 14F
02/16 15:52, 14F
→
02/16 15:52, , 15F
02/16 15:52, 15F
→
02/16 15:52, , 16F
02/16 15:52, 16F
→
02/16 15:53, , 17F
02/16 15:53, 17F
→
02/16 15:53, , 18F
02/16 15:53, 18F
→
02/16 15:53, , 19F
02/16 15:53, 19F
→
02/16 15:53, , 20F
02/16 15:53, 20F
→
02/16 15:54, , 21F
02/16 15:54, 21F
→
02/16 15:54, , 22F
02/16 15:54, 22F
→
02/16 15:54, , 23F
02/16 15:54, 23F
→
02/16 15:54, , 24F
02/16 15:54, 24F
→
02/16 15:54, , 25F
02/16 15:54, 25F
→
02/16 15:55, , 26F
02/16 15:55, 26F
→
02/16 15:55, , 27F
02/16 15:55, 27F
→
02/16 15:56, , 28F
02/16 15:56, 28F
→
02/16 15:57, , 29F
02/16 15:57, 29F
→
02/16 15:57, , 30F
02/16 15:57, 30F
→
02/16 15:57, , 31F
02/16 15:57, 31F
→
02/16 15:58, , 32F
02/16 15:58, 32F
→
02/16 15:59, , 33F
02/16 15:59, 33F
→
02/16 15:59, , 34F
02/16 15:59, 34F
→
02/16 15:59, , 35F
02/16 15:59, 35F
→
02/16 16:01, , 36F
02/16 16:01, 36F
推
02/16 16:01, , 37F
02/16 16:01, 37F
推
02/16 16:04, , 38F
02/16 16:04, 38F
→
02/16 16:04, , 39F
02/16 16:04, 39F
→
02/16 16:05, , 40F
02/16 16:05, 40F
→
02/16 16:05, , 41F
02/16 16:05, 41F
→
02/16 16:06, , 42F
02/16 16:06, 42F
推
02/16 16:06, , 43F
02/16 16:06, 43F
→
02/16 16:07, , 44F
02/16 16:07, 44F
→
02/16 16:07, , 45F
02/16 16:07, 45F
→
02/16 16:08, , 46F
02/16 16:08, 46F
推
02/16 16:09, , 47F
02/16 16:09, 47F
→
02/16 16:10, , 48F
02/16 16:10, 48F
→
02/16 16:10, , 49F
02/16 16:10, 49F
→
02/16 16:11, , 50F
02/16 16:11, 50F
→
02/16 16:11, , 51F
02/16 16:11, 51F
→
02/16 16:12, , 52F
02/16 16:12, 52F
→
02/16 16:13, , 53F
02/16 16:13, 53F
推
02/16 16:14, , 54F
02/16 16:14, 54F
推
02/16 16:14, , 55F
02/16 16:14, 55F
→
02/16 16:14, , 56F
02/16 16:14, 56F
→
02/16 16:14, , 57F
02/16 16:14, 57F
→
02/16 16:15, , 58F
02/16 16:15, 58F
→
02/16 16:16, , 59F
02/16 16:16, 59F
→
02/16 16:16, , 60F
02/16 16:16, 60F
→
02/16 16:17, , 61F
02/16 16:17, 61F
→
02/16 16:18, , 62F
02/16 16:18, 62F
→
02/16 16:18, , 63F
02/16 16:18, 63F
推
02/16 16:24, , 64F
02/16 16:24, 64F
→
02/16 17:19, , 65F
02/16 17:19, 65F
→
02/16 17:22, , 66F
02/16 17:22, 66F
→
02/16 17:23, , 67F
02/16 17:23, 67F
推
02/16 17:26, , 68F
02/16 17:26, 68F
推
02/16 17:30, , 69F
02/16 17:30, 69F
→
02/16 17:30, , 70F
02/16 17:30, 70F
推
02/16 17:41, , 71F
02/16 17:41, 71F
→
02/16 17:48, , 72F
02/16 17:48, 72F
→
02/16 17:49, , 73F
02/16 17:49, 73F
→
02/16 18:01, , 74F
02/16 18:01, 74F
推
02/16 18:02, , 75F
02/16 18:02, 75F
→
02/16 18:03, , 76F
02/16 18:03, 76F
→
02/16 18:03, , 77F
02/16 18:03, 77F
推
02/17 21:39, , 78F
02/17 21:39, 78F
→
02/17 21:39, , 79F
02/17 21:39, 79F
→
02/17 21:40, , 80F
02/17 21:40, 80F
→
02/18 22:06, , 81F
02/18 22:06, 81F
→
02/18 22:06, , 82F
02/18 22:06, 82F
→
02/18 22:07, , 83F
02/18 22:07, 83F
→
02/18 22:08, , 84F
02/18 22:08, 84F
→
02/18 22:08, , 85F
02/18 22:08, 85F
→
02/18 22:09, , 86F
02/18 22:09, 86F
→
06/19 09:31, , 87F
06/19 09:31, 87F