晚上因為指導孩子功課的關係和先生起了衝突,雖然孩子現在才中班,
但我覺得是觀念而非年紀的問題,所以想請教板上各位老師,若有表達
不好的地方還請見諒,若不適合貼在此版我再自刪~
大寶今天寫ㄅㄆㄇ,平常若是我陪他,就讓他自己寫完後我檢查,筆劃
不對、歪七扭八、寫錯的地方,我會再指導一次,也會問他有沒有覺得
哪些字歪歪的,可以擦掉寫得更漂亮一點?
(我並非要他一定要擦掉或是寫的多整齊,而是告訴他: 我們要不要再
試一次?可不可以寫得更漂亮一點?他自己找出要修改的字)
今天是爸爸陪寫,一邊寫孩子自己說:「喔歪掉了」或是「寫錯了」爸爸
就告訴孩子:「沒關係,寫錯了讓老師看,老師才知道你錯在哪,可以教
你」或「寫歪了沒關係,這是要讓你練習的,不用改」
所以我們就起爭執了(攤手),先生認為:功課是讓老師知道孩子學習程
度,這樣老師才能幫他們加強,寫得不好就是練習的過程,不必修正。
難道我們以後都要幫他把所有的功課訂正到無錯誤?品行由家長,功課應
交由老師。
我認為:培養孩子對功課負責的態度也很重要(如:寫完就好vs.認真做好
)他自己覺得寫歪了,就讓他多練習一次何妨?(一週只有兩天有功課)
老實說我覺得先生觀念好像也沒錯,但我想要求孩子對功課負責應該也
沒做得太過分啊@_@所以想請教各位老師: 上小學之後,家長需不需要檢
視孩子作業內容的"對錯"?還是真的都讓老師去評斷就好?
啊啊啊感覺是一件很小的事,這問題好像也不該問老師(似乎是家務事)但
我陷入無解的圈套,也不想要孩子有雙重標準,謝謝各位了~~~
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