[?牛] 被牛女好朋友絕交
(手機排版請見諒)
如題,牛朋友在幾天前傳了訊息跟我絕交。
幾個月前,因為一些小爭執,我一氣之下刪了她的line,當時她大哭問我究竟有什麼事不
能好好說要這麼對她?她說她是個相當重視友情的人,我也覺得自己太過分了,跟他道歉
後兩人一如往常。
幾週前,又因為一些小爭執,我實在氣不過,腦子在氣頭上容易做傻事,於是乎我又刪了
她的line...這段期間正值她分手低潮期(我是後來才知道),她只傳了訊息跟我說,她
自
己的情緒壓力無法處理好,已無餘力去處理其他的情緒,我讓她的壓力很大,覺得兩人友
情就到只為止對她對我都好,不想因為我而有其他的情緒起伏。
看到這段話當下真的整個清醒過來,我為什麼要這樣對待一個真心待我的朋友,有什麼爭
執誤會都可以好好說,為什麼我要用這麼幼稚的方式處理(對了,我雙魚月亮摩羯),而
且更要不得的還用了兩次。
我道歉,我很誠摯地請求她的原諒,因為這件事我重新省視自己,壞脾氣壞嘴幼稚我會改
變,請她給我機會。她回我:「你的反省是你應得的,我不想再跟你有任何的聯繫。」
然後,電話被封鎖,更不用說臉書和IG了。
我知道要挽回這段友誼很困難甚至是不可能,已爬版看完所有關於吵架的文章,一些金牛
的基本特質在她身上都可見。話雖如此,我還是不死心的想來版上跪求大家的意見,即便
成功機率渺茫我也願意一試,即便她此後對我冷淡,我也願意用一輩子的時間證明我對這
段友情的重視。
以上,請各位給小的鞭策及意見,再麻煩大家了,謝謝。
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撇開星座,光是這種行為的確讓人心寒......偏偏要搞到這種地步我才知道要導正自己的惡
習。讓她這麼死心,幾年時間都無法回到以前,現在處於失聯狀態,只能不吵她並改進自
己,然後奢求哪天能有機會從點頭之交開始讓她重新認識我了,即便真的用一輩子我也願
意。真的謝謝大家的指教。
※ 編輯: t773140 (123.195.156.14), 10/11/2016 21:31:53
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