[牛?] 牛男的高自尊心及不懂安慰(已更新)
昨天跟牛男吃飯,他又開始希望我改變髮型和穿著,甚至說出很傷人的話,說完後,我眼眶紅
了,但我難過在心裡(忍住不哭),
而他應該也有察覺到,馬上說:好啦,算我講錯話.
後來也只給我一個沉默的擁抱而已...
過一下子,我直接跟他說我心裡有點受傷,想跟他討拍,其實就只是想親親抱抱而已,他竟然
說他不懂安慰,也不會,也沒有任何安慰我的話要說....
傍晚,因為心裡有疙瘩,但我還是想跟他溝通,後來想跟他撒嬌,他竟然說要我自己走過去??
(我們在同一個空間)
想問各位牛男的自尊心都這麼強嗎?知道女友難過都還不懂安慰嗎?
ps.他只交過一位女友
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他說他因為喜歡我,在意我,才想改變我
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有在考慮
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我開始懷疑他好像不會談戀愛
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想哭,但我忍住了...
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有在考慮
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我也覺得他滿自我的,很大男人
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但他總說他喜歡我,在意我,所以才想改變我,讓我變更好
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/12/2015 23:56:55
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昨天的事,已經讓我對他有點心寒了
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他說他當初追我時是直髮,但現在我是捲髮,他一直希望我能燙直 ╮(╯_╰)╭
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他昨天就說一開始不知道我穿著這麼low...
雖然是無心的話,但我既無言又難過.
其實我現在的穿著也不差,是比較符合我的年齡,而他總是嫌太老
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※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/13/2015 01:16:08
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/13/2015 01:17:37
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他說他希望我跟他出去穿著能跟他搭配
我懷疑他不會"愛人",也不懂得"愛"
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/13/2015 01:20:24
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我也是有生氣,但他也會心情不好,然後沉默(金牛一貫的態度?)
其實他年紀比我小,個性也固執,有時候想說抱著讓他的心情在跟他相處
如果是之前的男友這樣,我也會爆氣XDD
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/13/2015 01:25:16
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昨天談過,他的想法是說希望我的穿著,能以他的年紀為考量
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (39.12.152.170), 11/13/2015 01:27:41
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當初會喜歡我是感覺,還說不知道我穿著這麼low = =
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這就是“愛“
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有想要放生了
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T大說的很貼切,我也覺得他不懂
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他說他希望我的穿著能符合他的年紀
我年紀比他大,但我的穿著是沒問題的,而他一直要把我的穿搭年齡修正到20歲,
但姐姐畢竟已經過了那年紀阿(菸),離20有點遙遠了(遠目)..
※ 編輯: nsaidrx2568 (27.245.72.88), 11/15/2015 01:10:26
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